Sometimes poorly chosen words and carelessly thrown phrases can harm relationships.
However, some expressions in such a case can undermine harmony and trust between partners.
Therefore, when communicating with a loved one, it is important to avoid certain “harmful” words that can lead to the appearance of a serious crack in the union.
"Always or never"
Often during quarrels and arguments, some people blame their partner and use the phrases “you always” or “you never”.
However, such words can be perceived as some kind of attack, and therefore can cause a feeling of injustice and, accordingly, a desire to defend oneself.
As a result, such expressions will only complicate the dialogue.
Therefore, in this case, it is better to discuss specific situations or actions that could have caused unpleasant emotions.
Moreover, it is necessary to express oneself clearly and without exaggeration.
Comparison with parents
Comparing your partner to one of his parents, especially in a negative way, is definitely not a good idea.
Such expressions can deeply hurt a loved one and will be perceived as an attack on family values that are important to him.
Therefore, such issues should be discussed with the utmost caution and respect.
"You should" and "you must"
Such phrases can be perceived by the other half as attempts to dictate certain conditions and control.
So, ultimately, they will cause negativity and counter-resistance.
Such expressions may indicate attempts to limit personal freedom.
Therefore, it is worth voicing some of your wishes and expectations in such a way that they do not sound like an order and are not pronounced in an ultimatum form.
Previously, we wrote about how to deal with jealousy in relationships.
