If a woman has to live with an unloved husband who has not caused her any feelings other than irritation for a long time, she experiences a drain of energy and does not have the strength for anything.
The woman stops enjoying life and feels constant fatigue, weakness and laziness.
Which leads to even greater dissatisfaction with the world around you, your husband and yourself.
And we need to love ourselves and not forget that we must take care of our own comfort, that we must recover in our homes, and not lose energy.
But we cannot do this if we live with a person who is unpleasant to be around, especially if there are conflicts with him. In such conditions, the energy field only becomes thinner.
Reasons to live with an unloved husband
The mistress of a cold family hearth should not look for reasons to justify her choice. All these reasons turn out to be insignificant.
Material reason
If a wife thinks that it is materially beneficial for her to live with an unloved husband, she is mistaken. Gifts received from a man you do not value will not be valued either.
If she does not waste her energy on maintaining unsuccessful relationships, but directs it to her own development, she will be able to get much more. And the benefits that she achieves herself will bring more joy than the benefits received from another person. In addition, these achievements will serve as motivation for further self-development.
Children together
Women who believe that they should live with someone who is not close to them for the sake of having children together are also mistaken.
Children are acutely affected by their parents' quarrels and cold atmosphere; they cannot be happy if their parents are unhappy. When a mother is constantly depressed and dissatisfied, the mood of despondency will certainly be transmitted to the children.
When a mother can love herself, can learn to enjoy life, can finally become self-sufficient, she will begin to radiate positive energy.
This will definitely affect the psychological and physical health of children. Seeing that her children are happy and healthy, a mother will become even stronger.
Only by parting with an unloved spouse - the source of the drain of vital energy, a lady will be able to recover and discover new potentials in herself.
Earlier we wrote about what you shouldn’t do in a relationship.
