It often happens that, having been in a relationship with a particular person for a decent amount of time, you still feel the coldness of mistrust emanating from him.
Moreover, the reason for such detachment is not always clear and obvious, especially if harmony normally reigns between the partners.
Where does mistrust in relationships come from?
As a rule, the reason traditionally lies in the parent-child relationship.
This is worth knowing
Very often, distrustful people were children in the past who were left alone by their parents for long periods of time.
In such conditions, the child learns to rely solely on himself, but, while outwardly remaining calm, he often feels a fear of insecurity and vulnerability.
In the future, such fear is reborn into the conviction: “Closeness hurts and threatens inevitable loneliness.”
To gain the trust of such a person, it is extremely important to be patient and not to pressure him into being close to you.
Reduce the distance gradually, while simultaneously convincing your partner that in difficult times you will not leave him and will always be a reliable support for him.
Previously, we talked about what actions of a man should not be trusted.
