When your friends have significant others and you don't, then disappointment in life sets in. Almost complete and hopeless.
But it is worth remembering that your other half will appear only when you are ready to meet.
And since this meeting has not yet happened, it is worth figuring out what exactly stands in the way of bright and cloudless happiness.
Let's look at some of the reasons that prevent you from finding your true love.
High or low standards for candidates
It is often said that if a person remains alone, he or she places too high standards on others.
For example, a candidate for your favor must have an education at a certain university, graduate with honors, be the head of a prestigious company or have his own business with income, and so on.
In such a situation, it is better to lower the bar a little. After all, successful people also make higher demands on their candidates for life together. Therefore, it is worth seriously considering whether you yourself meet these high standards?
But too low standards often leave a person lonely. After all, then an image of a useless loser is created, who asks for at least a drop of love and attention.
Appearance
It is no secret that people pay attention first of all to the “outer shell”, and much later evaluate moral and intellectual qualities.
Therefore, if you have stopped taking care of yourself or have adopted the principle “The main thing is not the appearance, but the soul”, then it is better to immediately rethink your behavior. The reason is simple: with your unkempt appearance you can rather scare off a potential soulmate than attract her into your life.
This applies not only to women, but also to men. Modern ladies also pay attention to the appearance of the representatives of the stronger sex, and can refuse a relationship only because of appearance.
Lack of trust in the opposite sex
If a person does not trust his partner, then one can not even dream of creating a couple. After all, love can only appear where there is trust.
Lack of trust is a common problem. It can arise either from parental conflicts, or from betrayal by friends, or from past unsuccessful relationships. There are many reasons. The main thing here is to understand the reasons for mistrust and try to gradually learn to trust people. At least in some matters.
Don't let go of the past
This is also a common problem. If a man or woman has recently broken off a relationship, then you shouldn't expect "the one, the one and only" to instantly appear. It won't happen.
If a person is simply looking for a replacement for the previous partner, then he will only find a replacement. But not his other half.
The other half can appear only when a person sorts out the past relationship and finally "lets go" of it. It is worth understanding that this process sometimes takes a lot of time. Not even a couple of weeks or months. Sometimes it takes several years.
"I am always right"
This is a losing position for any person. If a person constantly puts his opinion above others and proves to others that only his opinion is the only correct one, then it is not surprising that there is not even a second half on the horizon.
In a couple, it is important to be able to compromise, listen and hear your partner. And sometimes admit that your point of view or actions were wrong.
Discuss options for correcting situations. And find the strength to implement decisions. Without this, every person will run away from such a dictator and will build their happiness with a "calm candidate".
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