The phrase "a man loves with his eyes, and a woman with her ears" is fundamentally wrong. Men need praise even more than we, girls.
As you know, 80% of a man's success depends on the woman next to him. What you can't talk about with a man.
Your man's fate is in your hands. Women's cunning has always been placed in opposition to men's strength. A woman who is able to provide comfort in the home - to support in some places, to remain silent where necessary, and sometimes to criticize - is called wise.
I have no doubt that your man has so many virtues that you don't have to invent praise. We will discuss what you can't talk about with a man.
Two "Scary" Things That Ruin Your Relationships
Firstly, these are facts that spoil his impression of you, and secondly, facts that expose his shortcomings that he would prefer to hide.
Let's start with the first one. Hold off on talking about what might limit his freedom.
For a single man, the registry office and children are equal to hell, since they mean the end of such precious freedom, and talking about this can shock him and make him want to run wherever his eyes look.
There is no point in depriving him of this feeling, at least its illusion.
Therefore, you shouldn’t touch on the topics of marriage, children, etc. at the beginning of a romantic relationship; he doesn’t need to know this (yet).
Don't spread the word about your ex-boyfriends. Any representative of the stronger sex is used to thinking that you spent your whole life waiting for him, a handsome knight on a white horse.
If you don't want to end up in the category of women of easy virtue, don't let your boyfriend think that he's not your first. As they say, blessed is he who believes. Let him consider himself a knight - we don't feel sorry for him, do we?
I must be able to do everything! Don't even think about admitting to a man that you can't do something.
Phrases like “Honey, I don’t know how to use an iron or a washing machine” and “Honey, why should I know how to cook? We can have lunch at a cafe!” shouldn’t even appear on your tongue.
For a man, comfort is everything. So bookmark sites with cooking recipes and open the book "Beginner Housewife". The goal is to be able to do everything that a real Wife should be able to do, because men like women who can provide comfort.
An aspen tree does not bear oranges. You should not specifically tell your husband about your relatives with a not very fortunate fate. This is exactly what you cannot talk about with a man.
Drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals are relatives that are best kept secret.
Firstly, it will give him the right to say the phrase "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" in case of any of your misdeeds. I don't think that's the limit of your dreams.
Secondly, any man dreams of healthy children. And having "failed" relatives will bring doubt into your soul: will you be able to provide healthy offspring without genetic deviations. "The less he knows, the better he sleeps" is an absolutely appropriate phrase here.
Previously, we talked about how to understand that it’s time to break up .
