Every parent wants their child, especially their son, to grow up to be a worthy member of society and live up to expectations.
In pursuit of such a result, mothers and fathers often resort to a wide variety of methods.
Thus, phrases are often used that at first glance seem harmless, but in reality they can cause serious harm to the child.
What expressions exactly are we talking about? The second part of our material will answer this question.
Men don't cry
Of course, it is necessary to cultivate fortitude in a child.
However, it is important not to develop a habit of suppressing negative feelings.
"You have to handle it yourself"
The child should be able to resolve certain situations independently.
At the same time, you shouldn’t cultivate a feeling of loneliness and isolation within him about his problem.
"We told you so"
Such a phrase deprives the boy of confidence in himself and his feelings.
Over time, the child simply stops trusting himself and his own intuition, and begins to constantly expect instructions from the outside.
Earlier we talked about why partners do not understand each other and relationships do not work out.
