It often happens that yesterday's happy spouses suddenly and mutually decide to file for divorce.
But having children and common activities means that it is not possible to completely break off communication.
Therefore, you should figure out how to build relationships and communicate with your ex-husband if you have children.
Most often, it is necessary to resolve the issue related to the payment of alimony. At the same time, many women make one serious mistake - they try to resolve this problem verbally.
It is possible that the ex-husband will pay for some time, but very soon everything will stop. So do everything according to the law and do not give in to persuasion.
With official papers you will have a better chance of getting the money. And you will feel calmer.
What to do if your ex-husband wants to communicate with your children
In this case, you don't need to interfere with him. In order for a child to grow up fully-fledged, he must feel the attention of both parents. So, without fear, allow your ex-husband to communicate with his children. Naturally, if he is adequate and can be trusted.
For many, this may be difficult, but you should overcome your pride. On the contrary, you should be glad that your ex-husband has expressed a desire to communicate with the child. Some completely forget about their children and immediately switch to other relationships. In addition, you will have more free time.
Things to remember
You shouldn't weave intrigues, turning the child against his father.
Forget about your personal disappointments and grievances.
If you don’t want to see your ex-husband at all, then transfer the child through third parties (relatives).
What to do if you decide to start a new relationship
In this case, there is no need to justify yourself. You are already divorced, which means you have the right to build your personal life. Especially if the man himself was the initiator of the divorce.
Be prepared for the fact that your ex-husband will also sooner or later find himself a new companion, so you will somehow have to build a future relationship.
This is important for you to come to psychological comfort and become happy. A new husband does not change anything, the father should also be able to communicate with his children.
What to do if your ex keeps visiting you as if nothing happened
In this case, you need to change the locks immediately. Of course, if he is not the owner of the apartment. Do you want to maintain a good relationship?
Then, to begin with, you should ask your ex-husband, who wants to communicate with the children, to at least call you to warn you of his visit.
Especially since you can walk around the apartment without clothes. And after the divorce, you became strangers to each other.
Try to build a neutral format of relations. It is ideal, if, of course, the man himself agrees to it.
Earlier we talked about what things about women are incomprehensible to men .
