Some people are forced to suffer time and again from fading interest in people who have confessed their mutual feelings to them.
Where does this harmful behavioral pattern come from? Traditionally, the problem's roots come from childhood, as well as from one's own unrealistic ideas about relationships.
In addition, the desire to run away from a mutually in love person arises against the background of fear of responsibility, unstable self-esteem, fear of rejection and craving for uncertainty.
How to deal with this problem and eradicate it once and for all? The second part of our article answered this question.
Possible reasons
First, resort to rationalization and think about what exactly is preventing you from entering into a relationship with a person you like mutually.
Once you understand the reason, it will be much easier to work with the situation.
Change of tactics
Give yourself the opportunity to experiment and, for example, stay in such a relationship longer.
Watch the events unfold, taking notes if necessary about what exactly you see.
Contacting a psychologist
If the above tips don't work and you still feel the urge to act in a harmful pattern, don't hesitate to work through the issues with a professional.
This way you can get rid of the problem faster and more effectively.
Earlier we talked about why we idealize the past and why this is dangerous.
