Grandmothers always show special attention when communicating with their grandchildren.
They can pamper them, constantly praise them and even turn a blind eye to their mistakes.
As a result, a situation may arise where the child begins to love his grandmother more than his mother. And how to act in such a situation?
Understanding the reasons
The first step to solving the problem is to understand why a child might feel a closer connection with a grandmother.
This may be because the grandmother spends more time with the child, or she allows the child more freedom and entertainment. Parents can try to talk to the child and find out what exactly he likes about communicating with his grandmother.
There is no point in comparing
It is important not to compare yourself to your grandmother and not to feel offended. What is the point of such comparisons? Mom and grandmother are different people. Comparisons can be destructive. It is also worth remembering that upbringing from parents and grandmother is always different and this is normal.
Parents are obliged to be more strict in communication when grandmothers have the opportunity to turn a blind eye to mistakes and make concessions more often.
Creating special moments
Parents can try to create their own special moments with their child that will help strengthen their relationship. They can:
- play interesting games;
- read books;
- prepare delicious treats;
- just spending time outdoors.
Spending time together allows you to strengthen your bond with your child and achieve harmony in communication.
Keeping in touch with grandma
Don't interfere with the relationship between the child and the grandmother. Some mothers make this mistake when they realize that their child loves the grandmother more. What's the point?
Every person in a child's life can be useful. And if he loves his grandmother very much, it is definitely worth using it to his advantage.
Discussion of feelings
If parents are concerned that their child seems to prefer their grandmother, they can discuss their feelings with other loved ones.
Sometimes it's enough to just talk and share your feelings. Of course, such discussions should only be started with people who can understand the essence of what is happening.
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