Only some time after the divorce do women better understand what went wrong and whether it was possible to find another way out of the situation.
This opinion is expressed by many psychologists who specialize in relationships between opposite sexes.
There are a few things that women begin to regret only some time after a divorce.
Fear of asking for help
Many women in marriage take on absolutely everything: caring for children, housework, cooking, and at the same time strive to look good.
Not everyone manages to do everything and meet expectations. As a result, stress, anger and resentment arise.
Under the influence of emotions, women do not think that they could simply talk to their husbands and somehow redistribute responsibilities so that everyone would be happy.
Loss of independence
Some women consider it a mistake to devote themselves entirely to their spouse after marriage, forgetting about their own desires and needs.
After a divorce, they realize that they should not have broken up, but simply changed their approach. Most often, they say: "If I could go back in time, I would have paid more attention to myself."
The main lesson is that a person will not become what others want him to be until he meets his own needs.
Hasty choice
Many women live by ingrained patterns, trying to get married before 25 or 30. But then some of them realize that they have not understood themselves and their tastes well.
Often people choose a partner at 20-30 years old based on one set of criteria, but at a more mature age other priorities appear.
The main lesson is to focus all your efforts on understanding your tastes, rather than on trying to meet some standards.
Earlier we talked about how men should behave after breaking up with a woman.
