Every bride awaits this day with great excitement and trepidation and, of course, each has her own fears.
Will it rain or snow?
No one ever knows for sure what the weather will be like. But you need to be prepared for everything. Therefore, it is best to think of a backup plan in advance. Worrying is a normal state. However, you should not dwell on it too much.
When choosing a photographer, it is better to discuss this point in advance. A real professional will take excellent pictures in any weather. And you can also take beautiful rubber boots and an umbrella with you. The photos will be very original.
I don't have time to do all the things I planned
During the preparation for the wedding, a lot of troubles fall on you. Future wives feel like they don’t have time for anything. There is only one piece of advice: start a diary and write down everything that needs to be done or has already been done in order of priority.
Some of the guests will not be able to come.
It happens that invited guests suddenly do not come. Circumstances vary. Unfortunately, guests cannot give a 100% guarantee that they will come. You need to try to accept this fact. The main people at the wedding are the bride and groom, not the guests. After all, nothing terrible will happen if someone cannot attend the wedding.
And if the dress gets dirty?
Of course, the bride will be the center of attention. But this does not mean that all the guests will look for flaws in the dress and think that it got dirty somewhere. In addition, the long hem will definitely not be ideal. The shining smile of the bride is what will delight the guests all evening.
The guests will remain hungry
Many brides worry about not having enough alcohol or food on their wedding day. This is not your concern! The restaurant will take care of this. Chefs work so that they can be assigned such duties, and the guests can enjoy the celebration.
What will the photos be like?
Another common fear of brides: "What will I look like in photographs?" No one except the bride herself knows about her imperfections. And most often, there are none at all. To dispel such anxiety, it is worth discussing it with the photographer. He will tell you which side or angle to stand and turn. This will relieve the bride of unnecessary thoughts.
On this happy day, first of all, you should think about the fact that the most important thing is not the hairstyle and dress with the photo shoot, but that your loved one and you are becoming a family.
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