Men and women have different views on many things.
This also applies to the love sphere. Many women dream of a strong family.
To become the best for her husband, girls should find out what men imagine an ideal wife to be.
10 Criteria of an Ideal Wife through the Eyes of a Man
Psychologists have found out what men value most in a woman. Based on this data, experts have compiled criteria for an ideal wife. Such women:
1. Respect the husband. This is shown in the wife's soft style of communication with her husband. Barbs and harsh criticism of the man are unacceptable.
In addition, a woman who respects her husband will not make any decisions on her own, she will consult with him in any family matters. She controls her actions outside the home so as not to ruin her husband's reputation.
2. Respect your husband's friends. A wife will never speak ill of his colleagues and comrades. Ideal women, in the opinion of men, do not interfere with their communication with friends.
In addition, if a man wants his lady to be with him in the company of his friends, she will agree. But it is worth remembering that a woman has the right to choose: if for some reason she does not want to be in the company of her husband's friends, she can tactfully explain this to her beloved, without insulting his comrades.
3. She is glad to see her husband back home. She goes out to meet him in the hallway, smiling, kisses him, hugs him. She also does not skimp on words of gratitude, declarations of love and compliments to her husband.
According to statistics, many men note this criterion, which in their opinion their wife should meet. But if the wife, exhausted by household chores that need to be done after work, does not show enthusiasm when her husband returns home, the latter should think about helping the suruga, and not demand attention to himself.
4. She is smart, but does not try to prove to a man that she is smarter than him. She will never preach to a man. Her wisdom helps her smooth out sharp corners in controversial issues, find a compromise with her husband, and remain calm.
She uses her intellectual potential in such a way that it seems to the man that he was the one who found the solution to the controversial issue.
5. Is a source of inspiration for the husband. To inspire the husband to advance in his career. Help with the housework, the woman should openly tell him about her desires. It is important to choose the right time for the request.
If the husband comes home tired from work, the ideal wife will not complain to him that the meat grinder is broken and the tap in the kitchen is leaking. In addition, the requests of the ideal wife do not sound like complaints, but as a call to show masculinity and strength.
6. Doesn't get offended and doesn't make scandals out of nothing. This doesn't mean that a girl needs to hide her negative emotions. She needs to learn to calmly discuss with him what she doesn't like.
7. Sees her husband as an interlocutor. She is attentive in communication with him, trusts him. To show her interest in communication, she does not allow herself to look at her phone or do something important while listening to her husband. During the conversation, she asks clarifying questions, makes approving remarks.
8. In difficult life or work situations, she always takes her husband’s side and supports him, encourages him, and provides all possible assistance.
With her behavior she shows that their love is not in danger, circumstances cannot destroy their union. The secret of family happiness is that a woman should become not only a wife for her husband, but also a friend who knows how to keep secrets.
9. Does not use sex as a means of manipulation or blackmail. During moments of intimacy, she tries to give her husband maximum pleasure. She also lets him know that he satisfies her sexual needs.
10. Remains a mystery for the husband, even if they have lived together for many years.
Important! Of course, such an attitude is appropriate if the man, on his part, respects and values his woman in the same way, is ready to discuss and compromise in solving family issues.
How to become an ideal wife
The first step towards perfection for a woman should be taking care of her husband and children. A woman creates comfort in the house, provides the family with tasty and healthy food, and monitors the appearance of her husband and children.
To become an ideal wife for her husband, a woman needs to cultivate such qualities as:
- devotion to your spouse (you shouldn’t flirt or coquet with other men);
- marital fidelity (a girl should not even fantasize about possible signs of attention from another man or imagine bed scenes with another gentleman);
- honesty;
- neatness (a girl should regularly visit a manicurist, do neat makeup, take care of her hair and the condition of her clothes).
In addition, the ideal woman is constantly evolving. She reads books, attends trainings and advanced training courses. This allows her to remain interesting to her life partner.
What you definitely shouldn't do
In pursuit of the ideal image of a wife, many ladies go too far. Psychologists have identified actions that will not help you become an ideal wife.
1. A woman strives to be the main one in a relationship. Only weak men like to obey, strong gentlemen prefer to take a leading position in a relationship. Many men are not ready to give up leadership in a marriage to their wife.
2. The wife wants to spend all her free time with her husband. Of course, spouses should have joint leisure time, but in addition to it, the man should have personal time and personal space.
3. The girl cares exclusively about her appearance. The ideal wife not only looks attractive, but is also an interesting conversationalist, an attentive listener. It is impossible to keep a man near you only with the help of external beauty.
4. Self-sufficiency. Independent and strong women strive to achieve everything in life themselves. However, such a strategy is not suitable for a strong marriage, a strong woman will never be ideal for a man, because he will feel superfluous next to her. Only a gigolo would want to live with someone who is able to provide for herself and her man on her own.
5. A woman tries to change a man by criticizing his opinion, work, circle of friends. A man will not change for a woman, it is easier for him to find another girl who will love him as he is.
A girl should remember that any of the strategies described above does not lead to the formation of the image of an ideal wife, but to divorce.
Thus, every girl can become an ideal wife. A married lady should remember that her husband's attitude towards her is determined by how she behaves around him.
Earlier we talked about the unpleasant moments that can cause a man to lose his beloved .
