Sometimes two halves do not understand why their relationship suddenly begins to fall apart.
It seems that everything is stable in people's relationships, and they don't have to worry about anything.
However, the partners no longer feel their connection, do not understand each other and are faced with problems that come into their lives one after another.
Perhaps the lovers do not feel how their relationship is falling apart. But why could this happen? Relationships will never become harmonious if there are any tricks, tricks and manipulations in them.
All this destroys trust and closeness between partners, they stop understanding each other. So, what can cause relationships to collapse?
Partners try to covertly manipulate each other
Relationships will definitely be filled with negativity if people are constantly offended by each other and try to subtly manipulate their loved one.
People often take their lover's opinion with hostility, but they don't tell him about it directly, but try to manipulate him.
Often, people use manipulation to take out their anger on their partner, they punish them, for example, by not answering their questions or even taking a break in the relationship, which ultimately becomes the beginning of the end. Even if manipulation seems funny, you shouldn't resort to it.
There is nothing good in gossip
If two people's relationship is on the rocks, the last thing they should do is call their friends, parents, or coworkers to complain about their lover.
Instead, you need to have an open conversation with your significant other about the problems that have arisen in the relationship.
You need to discuss difficulties with each other, you shouldn't tell everyone about them. Otherwise, the relationship may end altogether.
Don't trust your friends too much, even if they are time-tested, they can simply share with someone what they heard, and it will turn into a game of telephone, when ordinary news becomes gossip, which then ruins the relationship.
The desire to compare your partner with someone else
Sometimes people do it unintentionally, but sometimes they talk to their significant other and casually mention that someone might be better than them.
Perhaps a colleague does a better job or brings home more money, while a friend carries his partner in his arms and fulfills all her wishes. Sometimes comparisons do not even concern specific people, they can be abstract, but because of them, trust in a couple is undermined.
Unfortunately, sometimes a person can even compare his beloved partner to someone else in his thoughts.
However, if the other half hears reproaches and accusations that she cannot be perfect, of course, this will lower her self-esteem. She will acquire a bunch of complexes, because of which she will not want to be in this relationship.
People don't worry about anything
It would seem that calmness is, on the contrary, good for relationships, but it is not so. Sometimes it can bring even more negativity into the communication of two people. In fact, partners in their relationships need to find a balance, avoiding both calmness and drama.
If people are not used to showing each other their emotions, then over time one of the partners may think that the beloved has simply cooled off towards him and does not care about him at all.
Perhaps a person specifically wants to attract the attention of his other half and will start doing something that she definitely won’t like.
There is also a false calm - this is when people refuse to have sincere conversations and solve problems, deceiving themselves and saying the phrase “Everything is fine with us.”
But in reality, relationships in which partners don't talk to each other become lifeless and then die.
People forgive everything
Love will definitely die if lovers turn a blind eye to absolutely all the misdeeds of their loved one.
If a partner is accepted as he is, even if he brings negativity into the communication, then he may become impudent and feel that his hands are now untied.
At first he will be afraid of the mistakes he might make, but then he will stop caring about hurting his significant other and he will show what kind of person he really is.
Unfortunately, you can't always forgive your lover, even though you really want to do it so as not to hurt him. But sometimes you need to set boundaries in your relationship.
Earlier we talked about how to become happier .
