All families are different, although in childhood it may seem to a child that the accepted order in his environment is the same as everywhere else.
That is why we often project impressions from the past onto our present.
Let's figure out what kind of baggage from childhood can hinder us in life.
For example, in a dysfunctional family, the following behavior pattern is often practiced: in order to receive love, you need to earn it. And a person can project this behavior pattern onto others when they grow up.
It often happens that a child is called a crybaby and a sissy. This can lead to the fact that, as an adult, a person will withdraw into himself and be afraid to show his feelings.
If abuse was the norm in the family, then in the future such a person may justify violence against himself and in every possible way justify violence. Such a person may become a real find for the abuser.
A child who was not helped in childhood grows up with the confidence that he can only rely on himself. And therefore he often suffers from the fact that he cannot find relatives and close people who could help him.
