These 9 simple steps will help you forget your ex for good

10.11.2024 05:10

Are you thinking about a new relationship? Want to start all over again? So free your soul from old memories.

Throw your old love out of your head, otherwise you will never see happiness!

These simple steps will speed up your inner transformation. You will become a new woman and forget who your failed chosen one was. Let's begin?

Love very quickly turns to hate when a woman wants it.

How many negative qualities, bad habits and other peculiarities did your ex have? It's time to count them and learn them by heart. Sarcasm? Not at all. Write down the negative traits of your last lover in a separate notebook. Did he have many pluses? Compensate for them with minuses. Replace 1 advantage with 2 disadvantages. If you try, you will find a mountain of flaws. As a result, you will breathe a sigh of relief that you got rid of such a scoundrel.

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Now about the relationship with the ex-partner. Make an analysis: highlight the situations where he acted incorrectly.

Perhaps you were the first to seek reconciliation? Perhaps you admitted your guilt where it was not necessary? Well, now you don’t have to suffer. No one will make you a “scapegoat”. You are as free as a bird in the sky!

You will look at the old love affair with different eyes. You will rethink everything and understand that it was stupid to sacrifice yourself for so long. You should have left him right away!

Have you often cried because of this person? Don't look for excuses for him under any circumstances! You weren't crying for no reason, but because of bitter resentment. Yes, all women are overly emotional, but next to a worthy man they don't cry day after day.

Surely the words, behavior, silence or omissions of your ex-partner hurt you deeply. It turns out that he is the culprit of your troubles!

Highlight the most vivid cases that caused you the greatest offense. Has it ever happened that you could not calm down? That a man did not calm you down and did not apologize for what he did? Really? This scoundrel is not worth a fingernail of yours! You have even more reasons to be happy, do not be sad.

Have you accumulated a mountain of grievances? Then let's move on to the next point.

Get rid of the burden of resentment once and for all! If you think sensibly, then both are always to blame for the breakup. You allowed him to become a callous and cruel person, did not stop his antics at the very beginning.

You made a mistake, it happens to everyone. But in the future, you will do everything right. Be glad that you did not live with this person your whole life. Believe me, it is better to end problems immediately than to drag them around your neck for many years.

You need to get rid of all material reminders of your ex-lover. Urgently!

Don't throw away expensive gifts because you hate the giver. There are plenty of people in need in the world. Give them useful things, it's a good thing. At the very least, have a sale. That way you'll make some money. Double the benefit.

Consider a temporary change of scenery. Going away somewhere will distract you from all the troubles. Forget forever the places you visited with this person. Let there be no trace of these memories!

There is a void in your soul. Try to fill it with new impressions. Soon you will come to your senses and continue enjoying life.

You need to change externally and internally. Have you wanted to change your appearance for a long time? Great! Do everything that your ex-lover forbade you? Did he not like it when you wore bright dresses and high heels? Were ripped jeans also taboo? Buy yourself everything your heart desires!

Did your man not allow you to cut your hair? Get nail extensions? Get eyebrow tattoos? Visit a beauty salon, change your hairstyle and dye your hair your favorite shade. Stop by a nail extension specialist and eyebrow artist on the way. All options are available to you, don't limit yourself!

You have escaped the clutches of a formidable commander. You have the opportunity to become what you want to see yourself as.

From now on, you are a new person. Look at yourself. Are you happy with this transformation? Do you remember who you are now? Behave like a proud lioness who knows her worth.

The representatives of the stronger sex will appreciate this. And among the crowd of admirers, you will definitely choose the best man for family life. He will justify all your expectations.

Valeria Kisternaya Author: Valeria Kisternaya Editor of Internet resources