Women's wisdom is a long-hackneyed topic, unlike men's wisdom.
How does this quality manifest itself in men?
To understand this, you first need to familiarize yourself with 7 special phrases that wise men never say:
1. “My dear, this hairstyle doesn’t suit you, get a bob and dye your hair red”, “How can you use these Chinese cosmetics? There are many worthy brands!”
There are many male professions in the world. Women are wary of men who are well versed in women's topics.
A wise man would never think of discussing fashion trends, hair dyes, cosmetics, and leather handbags with a lady. The only exceptions are stylists, couturiers, fashion designers, makeup artists, etc. In other cases, such conversations create a certain tension. A woman may decide that her interlocutor has a non-traditional orientation.
2. “My ex was such a fool! She talked nonsense and disgraced me”, “And the previous one burned the food that I carefully chose for dinner. I went hungry”, “And before her, she was a frigid amoeba. She lay like a log in bed, not satisfying me”.
A wise man does not start conversations with the lady of his heart about old girlfriends. No wonder, because such an act is considered bad manners.
Any woman would be horrified by such a frank story. Jealousy and anger would awaken in her at the same time. Why? Because you can’t remember past relationships in the presence of your chosen one and say nasty things about former lovers. The current partner will have doubts: “Now I know that he says nasty things about me to relatives and friends. He will soon leave me.”
3. “You know, your legs are terribly crooked. Just a wheel!”, “You walk like a ragamuffin in rags”, “Can’t you see that you have three hairs in four rows. Where do you grow them?”, “With your cellulite, you can’t get off the exercise machines and the treadmill”.
A representative of the stronger sex has no right to criticize the shortcomings of his chosen one. This is, at the very least, offensive.
Let's say she really does have a few flaws. A wise man will point them out carefully and correctly. As a result, the lady will understand everything and will not be offended in the least.
A transparent hint will bear fruit - the woman will try to transform herself to please her lover and receive a compliment from him. Rudeness always leads to trouble.
4. “You’re a real slender girl! It’s okay that you weigh 90 at 165 cm. It’s your bones that are heavy” or “Yes, darling, you’ve gained some extra pounds. Don’t have any illusions, you won’t fit into that suit.”
All women on the planet are fixated on their appearance and their weight.
A wise man would never blurt out that his plump lady is a skinny girl with a wasp waist. She would consider his statement an outright lie, and she would be right.
From the previous point it is clear that mentioning excess weight is also not allowed. What to do then?
A man endowed with wisdom will smile and remain silent. If a woman pesters him with questions, he will say: “For me, you are the most beautiful. I like you the way you are.”
5. “My beloved mother cooks this dish differently”, “Your cooking is inedible. I’ll go visit my mother, they’ll feed me to my heart’s content”, “My mother has stacks of notebooks with recipes. She knows them by heart”, “There are no cooks equal to my mother!”
It is unacceptable to praise the culinary talent of a mother and at the same time put down the culinary abilities of a beloved woman.
How will a wise man get out of this situation if his chosen one is a lousy cook? He will give her beautiful cookbooks with glossy pages, offer his help, give some advice. He will never stoop to offensive phrases expressing dissatisfaction. With the help of gentle influence, he will achieve his goal - he will make a diligent cook out of his partner. Pressure and claims lead to conflicts. Reasonable people know this.
6. “I’m so fed up with this rush job”, “My car broke down. I’ll have to take it to the repair shop again”, “My tooth hurts again. I don’t want to give the dentist half my salary”, “I need your care, I’m exhausted. I can’t wait for my paperwork to be sorted out”.
A wise man is quite steadfast, reserved and strong. These traits allow him to refrain from complaining and whining. Is your health failing you? Are you having money problems? You can't cry about it now!
Of course, a representative of the stronger sex will share his troubles and failures with his friends. But he will not whine day after day. Tears and complaints are the lot of weak women.
A mature, determined man will overcome all difficulties on his own and breathe a sigh of relief. He is not some weakling to cry and beg for help. He will show everyone his independence and rise in his own eyes.
7. “I love you so much. I will give you the whole world!”, “Just so you know, I will marry you, I have no one more precious to me than you!”, “Don’t doubt my feelings, it’s serious!”, “Don’t I look like a man who is head over heels in love?”
A wise man does not want to lie to a woman's face. He will honestly admit to her the absence of feelings, and will not stoop to false confessions and oaths.
If he is unsure, he will simply remain silent. A little later, the representative of the stronger sex will determine his intentions and honestly voice them to the woman. Love is too serious a feeling for a wise man to lie about it.
Previously reported on how to understand that you are being manipulated in a relationship .
