Everyone knows that many men prefer comfortable women.
Have you ever thought about the fact that you could become such a convenient lover for your chosen one? What does the phrase "convenient woman" mean?
Being convenient means not creating difficulties for your other half. Such a representative of the weaker sex does not bother her loved one and behaves quietly.
She won't nag him or argue with him. She's smart, pretty, neat, and thrifty. In short, everyone dreams of such a lover!
Let's highlight the 6 main signs that you have fallen into this trap, becoming a convenient chosen one.
Once you get to know them, you will understand what the danger is. So, you can be called convenient if:
You do not deny your own guilt.
It turns out that you blame yourself for almost every argument. It was because of you that your spouse lost his temper and yelled, although you kept quiet. It was because of you that the electric stove broke, although you used it carefully. That is why you constantly give in to your partner and apologize to him.
You simply believe that the climate in the family is created by the woman. You prefer to remain silent rather than speak. In addition, you firmly believe that appropriate silence makes you wise. But very often it only harms the relationship.
You try to be strong in any circumstances.
No illness will break you. You are ready to go to work with a high temperature for a whole week.
You selflessly overcome all difficulties without the help of your beloved man.
You do not bother your partner with your fears, complaints, and worries. You do this because you know that he will not understand or console you.
But with all this, you often show concern. You believe that the stronger sex needs affection and support more than women. After all, they have many more responsibilities, and therefore more worries and stress.
You care about your life partner and try to please him in everything.
You are concerned about your man's comfort. That is why you cook him various delicacies and give him relaxing massages. These are the duties of a wife, in your opinion? And without them, a marriage will not last long?
It is the husband who is considered the breadwinner in the family! And it does not matter that you work, and he spends most of the day at the computer playing online games.
You take responsibility for every failure of your chosen one.
It seems to you that a wife is simply obliged to inspire her husband to new feats. Her task is to encourage the man and instill hope in him.
If the chosen one cannot achieve anything, it means that the woman motivates him poorly. It is generally accepted that the wife of a successful man should be wise.
In addition, she must believe in the powers of her beloved. You, of course, follow this advice and hope that your chosen one will succeed. And it does not matter that he is an incorrigible slacker and parasite.
You don't admit to a man that you need attention and care.
You once heard him confess his love and calmed down. These 3 short words that warmed your soul were enough for complete happiness. You don't need gifts, flowers or candy. It's all unnecessary luxury! You can do without unnecessary expenses.
You do everything possible to ensure that your chosen one does not get bored with you
Everything in your union should be magical and positive, filled with joy. We are talking about everyday life, rest, intimacy and much more.
Unfortunately, many women who want to be ideal for their husbands forget about the duties of their faithful. But men should also give in to their chosen ones, please them.
That is, it is necessary to reciprocate, and not just demand and receive certain bonuses. This concerns help, love and attention.
Earlier we talked about what to do if your partner has cheated .
