Your relationship is going great. You have complete mutual understanding. But your boyfriend is in no hurry to get married.
Have you ever asked yourself: “Why is he delaying getting married?”, “Does he even want to start a family?”
Chances are, a man won't admit to you that marriage isn't in his plans. Pay attention to the hints he gives you.
Eventually, you will understand that there will be no use from your partner. Don't sit and wait for miracles. Listen to his words, and you will hear the most important thing.
These 6 phrases are closely related to each other. They have one common meaning - this man will definitely not ask you to marry him!
1. "I'm going", "I'm leaving", "I spent", "I chose"
Your beloved has his own life. It seems there is no place for you in it. He will not change his attitude towards you even in 20 years. There is no use in hoping.
Your beloved behaves like a lone wolf: he plans, decides and does everything on his own.
In addition, the man only cares about his own needs. It feels like you don't exist for him. Usually, loving people don't forget about their other halves and use the pronoun "we".
Do you doubt your loved one? Ask him: “Do you want me to be your wife?” Most likely, he will be embarrassed and will not answer.
2. "I can't stand your mother (sister, friend, aunt, father, grandmother, brother)"
Does a man regularly throw mud at your relatives? Does he say that he will never communicate with these people? A future together with this person is impossible, finally understand this!
First, your lover does not respect your loved ones. Second, he does not respect you.
A decent man will definitely love you and will be understanding of your family and friendly ties.
He will not interfere with your communication with your family, and he will not forbid you from inviting your friends over.
3. “Why such tenderness, I don’t understand?”
Does your man feel offended by your kisses? Does he have a negative attitude towards romantic ideas? Does he prefer to hold back his feelings? Believe me, it’s not about his difficult character.
Perhaps he perceives you solely as a lover. This man does not need your love and affection.
He doesn't want to hug and kiss you tenderly. Such a person is good as a sexual partner, but nothing more.
4. "I'm unlikely to get married anytime soon."
Your beloved is in no hurry to start a family? And he openly admits it? What do you do with him?
Do you think that one day a man will forget about his beliefs and ask you to become his wife? No way. He will continue to delay the wedding you dream about.
Are you ready to wait for your loved one for many years without any guarantees?
5. “I can’t answer you”, “I doubt it”
Every answer your partner gives is laced with doubt. Do you think he lacks awareness and determination?
Perhaps he is simply afraid of making a mistake by marrying you. It turns out that the man will not make you the cherished proposal anytime soon.
Unfortunately, many men adhere to this rule. Perhaps he will never make a confident step towards the registry office. Perhaps he is still under the care of his mother. Then your man really should listen to his beloved parent until his gray hair.
6. “Do you really want to live in marriage or are you just kidding?”
A man suddenly became interested in your intentions and desires? Do not rush to rejoice, this does not mean that he wants to ring you. On the contrary, he is trying to find out the main thing: are you hunting for a stamp in your passport or are you ready to cohabit and not demand anything.
Earlier we talked about why perfectionism interferes with life.
