Not every lady is given to be steadfast and unbending. However, even a weak character can be dealt with.
Of course, parents and nature make their significant contribution to the development of personality. But if desired, every adult can correct their traits and become better.
What qualities exactly are we talking about? How to develop them in yourself? How to become a strong woman?
You have a long and hard work ahead of you. You must follow these 9 rules, no matter what the obstacles.
You don't have to live up to other people's expectations.
And even more so, to live in accordance with the prejudices imposed by society. There are no theoretical debts, obey the dictates of your heart.
Let's say a specific person behaves impudently and rudely. You are not obliged to respect him, because he is a troublemaker and a rude person. And it does not matter how old he is, how much work experience he has and what merits he has.
The only person who can expect respect is the one who does not insult or humiliate others. Don't be afraid to pay back the scoundrels in the same coin. Let them face the consequences of their intolerable behavior. Social status and occupation do not characterize human essence.
Respect your parents, listen carefully to what they tell you.
It is not necessary to follow every piece of advice from your father and mother. You have the right to do things your way. But you must respect your parents. Even if their opinions differ from yours at the core.
Over the years they have managed to acquire invaluable experience. Of course, some of your parents' views are long outdated.
However, you should not argue with them and prove that their statements are wrong. Do not hurt your loved ones with sharp words. Let them speak out, the choice is still yours. There is no need to spoil the relationship with your father and mother because of mere trifles.
Get rid of the fear of mistakes
Taking risks can be useful. But only within reasonable limits. Without risk, life is very boring and monotonous.
No one is forcing you to do anything reckless or put your life at risk.
You are a smart and resourceful lady to calculate all the pros and cons.
Brainstorming helps people come to the right decision. If you use your brain well, you won't have to give up on your ideas and turn back.
Stop lying
Lying is a low act. Strong people do not lie to others. Is it hard for you to be honest? It turns out that you are a weak woman at heart.
Ladies with a strong character are crystal honest. They will prefer the bitter truth to a sweet lie. The latter always turns out to be more painful.
Don't resort to lies even for a good purpose. The truth will come out sooner or later, and the person you wanted to protect will suffer. If you are not weak, you will find the strength to put an end to lies once and for all.
Move towards your cherished dream
Your path will be slow and stubborn. You will fall many times, but you will definitely get up. Perhaps you will be upset, lose heart, or freeze, but you will definitely continue to move forward.
Don't be afraid of difficult paths and thorny roads. If you reach the end, you will experience a pleasant relief and be proud of yourself. There is nothing wrong with moderate pride and self-love. All strong women are proud of their achievements and the results of their work. Don't lag behind them.
Face it: People make mistakes often. There's no changing that.
The people around you are not perfect, no matter how you look at it. There is not a single person in the whole world who would fully meet your preferences and expectations. Don't be naive, stop believing in fairy tales.
If someone has disappointed you, don't be sad. Sometimes close friends betray us, and relatives interfere with our plans. You can't relax, because at any moment a familiar person can drop the mask.
And don't forget about yourself. You've probably screwed up a lot in the past or upset someone.
Allow yourself to recharge if you are exhausted
Strong women realize that their capabilities are not unlimited. There is a limit to everything. These ladies remember: rest is needed to restore strength and the nervous system.
Don't work like an ox until late at night. You won't earn a billion anyway, but you'll seriously damage your health.
Taking a break will help you gather your thoughts and recharge your batteries. Finish your workday on time, and do some exercise in the morning and get back to work with renewed energy. Believe me, you'll get more done this way.
People with chronic sleep deprivation become inattentive and forget a lot. Do you really want to get to that point? Then don't torture yourself.
Smile and radiate endless positivity
And let the enemies turn black with anger. And you remain joyful and friendly despite their wishes.
This method works on good people too. They will start to reach out to you, you'll see.
Enjoy life to the fullest
Pay attention to everyday things more often. They can become an additional source of joy for you. Don't sit still - run, dance, do something exciting.
Do not neglect sports activities. As is known, they improve not only health, but also mood.
Create something new. If you choose a hobby that you like, you will plunge into a pleasant activity with your head and discover many interesting things.
