It is impossible to say unequivocally that this is white, and that is definitely black. The world is woven from contradictions, it certainly contains a large number of pluses and minuses.
In full, all of the above is fully applicable to relationships between opposite sexes.
People don't always notice when their relationships become toxic.
The reason for such blindness may be existing complexes or some aspirations hidden in the human subconscious. Also, reality is not always such that people can accept it immediately or at all.
Relationships of a bad plan hurt one's pride and are therefore often hushed up. But if you look at all this with a great deal of realism, you can easily notice the main signs that are most common.
Here are five of them, obvious if you look closely.
The first sign is a relationship in which ordinary boredom and irritation in its various manifestations and degrees quite often occur.
It is no secret that after some time all people can change. For some it happens for the better, when a person improves himself, working on himself. For others, on the contrary, all the shortcomings that were veiled by the freshness of a new relationship begin to worsen.
At this point, it is necessary to solve such problems only by joint efforts. When two people do not have the time or desire to discuss and solve such problems, this is almost always the reason for the disagreements that arise.
Couples of this nature can stay together for quite a long time out of habit or convenience, but it is difficult to call such a relationship good.
Sign number two can be identified by incessant thoughts about partners who are considered exes. As time passes, everything that was negative and offensive in a person's memory tends to smooth out somewhat. And it may become quite obvious that the previous relationship was, if not ideal, then close to this indicator.
The person begins to think about it as some kind of loss. The most important thing is that he will not say exactly and clearly what in the current relationship does not suit him.
There is only a vague dissatisfaction with what is happening around.
The reason, as a rule, lies in the character of the person himself. He is closed to himself, does not pay attention to his own, even the most modest needs, and often lives only for other people.
The third sign suggests little or no understanding.
Sympathy is a necessary element for any person. However, there is a special kind of it, the sympathy of a partner in a relationship. Then people can feel true happiness.
When this feeling is absent, there is discomfort and misunderstanding of some emotional outbursts and fluctuations of the partner, and therefore the relationship becomes, at times, unbearable.
The fourth sign appears in relationships when there is a failure to respect space for the individual or a complete denial of personal boundaries as such.
At the beginning of falling in love, everyone loves to share even the most personal experiences with their beloved. After some time, one of the two people may need a little more personal space. The other, most likely, will perceive this as alienation or betrayal. This will not be a plus for further development in the relationship.
The fifth sign occurs when rudeness or humor is considered inappropriate in a particular situation. This usually happens when the relationship is already far from ideal or even normal. One of the partners may allow themselves to be disdainful or outright rude towards the other.
As a rule, when such signs are detected, the relationship is not considered good. It is necessary to find the strength in yourself and admit this fact.
It is best not to continue such relationships, but to regard them as a necessary and invaluable life experience.
Earlier we wrote about why you shouldn’t date a married man.
