When people are emotional, they can say different things, and not always pleasant ones.
But there are certain phrases that should not be said during an argument.
Otherwise, it may not have the best effect on the relationship.
"You're overreacting."
You shouldn't criticize or question your significant other's feelings.
If you don't like your partner's reaction, it doesn't mean it's wrong.
Therefore, it is better to calmly discuss and find out what caused such a reaction.
"You never or always"
During a quarrel, some may accuse their other half of certain actions or, conversely, inaction.
But it is important to take into account that such statements may force the partner to take a defensive position.
Moreover, accusations can be perceived as aggression. So instead, you need to try to explain your feelings without unnecessary emotions.
Comparison with the former
Even during quarrels, you can't compare your other half with your former partners. This is a line that is best not to cross.
Such statements can offend a loved one. Moreover, such comparisons can hurt pride.
Earlier we wrote about why a wife shows aggression towards her husband.
