Until you are absolutely sure that your husband is cheating, you should not take any active steps.
You can always sort it out with him, make a scandal and make a decision about the future relationship, but for now your goal should be to catch your husband cheating.
There are many ways to do this, but it is better to do it beautifully and gracefully so that your husband understands how much he has lost due to his wrong behavior.
For now, you need to be patient and find out for sure whether your mistress exists in real life or is just a figment of your imagination.
Unfortunately, this is often the case, as many women like to invent problems for themselves. Therefore, in order to avoid finding yourself in an unpleasant situation, it is necessary to initially establish the fact of betrayal.
In addition, if you act hastily, you can ruin relationships that will be difficult to restore.
Women have such a rich imagination that they can come up with the most incredible methods to find out the truth. But before that, you should ask yourself whether you need to know about the presence of a mistress.
Think about what you will do with the information you receive and perhaps you will no longer need to waste time and energy on getting such "truth". If all this has not taken away your determination, then look at the main methods of catching someone in treason.
Follow your husband
This may be unpleasant for some people, but this method can give good results.
It is not at all necessary to run around the city with him everywhere, you can just accidentally drop in a couple of times to work or end up in those places where he often spends time.
You shouldn't involve your friends and acquaintances for these purposes, as there may be people among them who want to harm you and provide inaccurate information.
Chat with his best friend
This method is unlikely to give good results, since male solidarity is a very strong thing. But if you want your husband to know that you suspect something, then you can safely turn to his best friend.
Rest assured that all your questions will be accurately conveyed to your husband. Of course, friends are different, so you can quite easily get the truth. But again, you shouldn't trust such information 100%.
Wife's accusations of infidelity
It is known that the best defense is an attack, so men themselves often resort to this method to disguise their campaigns.
If your husband suddenly starts to pounce on you with accusations of cheating despite your exemplary behavior, then you don’t need to start making excuses right away. Most likely, the matter is much more complicated here, and it would be good to ask him a counter question with indisputable facts of his “gaffes” lately.
Attention to detail
If you want to figure it all out on your own, without attracting attention, then you can get by with simple observations.
Start from this day on, carefully monitor your husband, namely his habits, words, behavior and perfume smells. If you notice any significant changes in the form of a change in passions, new words and habits, then you can be sure that his social circle has clearly changed.
Heart to heart talk
A good method would be to ask your husband directly about having a mistress. Of course, this way you can put yourself in an unpleasant position and you are unlikely to get to the truth, however, such conversations can help a lot.
Don't keep all your suspicions and doubts inside, try to get them out. And to get rid of them, it is not necessary to shout and swear, even a simple conversation can be very useful.
Advice for a woman
As a rule, it is difficult for a man to decide to cheat. Most often, he is pushed to do so by constant reproaches from his wife, her monotonous behavior, and so on.
If you do not notice any changes in your relationship, and your husband continues to treat you well and pay attention to you, but still comes home late from work, this does not mean that he has someone else.
There is no point in exhausting yourself with suspicions that in most cases are simply wrong.
Don't be afraid to be happy and trust your partner, not the rumors going around. In addition, every woman has a well-developed intuition, through which she can always feel the presence of a mistress.
If you were able to establish with the help of the above methods that your husband is cheating on you, then now you should think about whether you can continue to live with this person or whether it is better to decide to separate.
Earlier we wrote about what negative thoughts prevent you from building a happy life.
