When such discord occurs in a family, it is difficult to save it.
Today, there is a percentage of families that, after betrayal, were able to find the strength to forgive their other half.
Although there is also data that a person lives in two families for many years, and no one except him suspects it.
According to statistics, it is men who cheat on women more often. As a result, the question arises, how to understand that the husband is cheating?
Behavior
Modern families are distinguished by the fact that they have little time for families and personal relationships. As a result, it turns out that the husband and wife simply do not know each other. This is a big mistake, because it will not be possible to understand that something is happening to the man.
In a normal, full-fledged relationship, where there are feelings and mutual respect, when a new woman appears, a man can give himself away in the following way:
- Shows less affection towards his wife. This includes: hugs, kisses.
- He is not interested in what his wife's day was like. This happens because he loses interest and shows it to another woman.
- Doesn't talk about global plans - buying a house, a car, big and long trips, etc.
This happens to every man. And here are a few more notable points:
- The husband begins to dress better, uses perfume more or more often than before.
- Hides his phone number, doesn't always answer all calls, and texts someone.
- He stays late at work, but comes home not tired, but cheerful.
- Availability of unplanned and unexpected trips for several days.
All this should alert any woman, all changes have a basis, even if it is not cheating.
Ways to identify a rival
In a situation of betrayal, everyone behaves not coldly and reasonably, but hysterically, aggressively, senselessly.
For this reason, you shouldn’t, having learned some information, immediately start to sort things out with your husband.
You will have to collect evidence, but you don’t necessarily have to hire a detective.
All actions must be unnoticeable, otherwise a scandal cannot be avoided. With a cool head and prudence you need to:
1. Carefully check your phone, if there are any correspondences, take screenshots on your own.
2. Clothes under control - pockets, wallet, money card. You can find receipts from stores for such products or gifts that were not in the family.
3. And the best moment is to try to track your spouse's movements from work to home. This is done by taxi, as a result it will be easy to understand whether he is going home. It is better to become a detective for one week, so as not to make a mistake, to find out about betrayal.
Having collected a complete evidence base, it is possible to start a conversation. First, having decided for yourself exactly what should happen in the end - the family will be destroyed or there is hope for preservation.
If thoughts about divorce have already been established, then you need to talk clearly, without retreating from your position.
If you want and have the opportunity to save the family, you need to forgive and make it clear that you will not tolerate this anymore.
It is not so difficult to understand that your husband is cheating; attentiveness and female intuition will answer any question.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man is indifferent to a woman .
