Every person at least once in their life has experienced situations in which the relationship had long since been destroyed, but the feelings did not go away.
Falling in love with her now ex-partner returned from time to time, exhausting and distracting her from her daily routine.
However, there is a way to get rid of unnecessary feelings, and it is quite simple.
You just need to use the useful tips that the second part of our article will tell you about.
Obvious shortcomings and blunders
To begin with, you should stop idealizing your ex-partner. Remember more often not how good you were with him, but his shortcomings.
Accepting the so-called imperfections of your departed lover will help you look at him with a sober, unclouded gaze.
Healthy egoism
Don't deny yourself the pleasure of starting to meet someone else or doing something that brings you positive emotions and impressions.
Remind yourself that you are a person in a free status, which means there is no reason to deny yourself anything.
Support from friends
Don't keep negative feelings and thoughts to yourself, but if possible, discuss the problem with friends.
This way you will be able to work through it better, better understand what exactly you feel. Understanding the problem is half the solution.
