How to spot a narcissist by text messages: psychologists give advice

27.09.2024 18:48

A narcissist is a person with a character pathology characterized by extreme manipulativeness, egocentricity and cruelty towards people around them.

Narcissists are harmful to deal with because your own psyche can be seriously damaged in such a case.

How to identify a narcissist at the very first stages of communication, namely, through correspondence?

Psychologists have explained that it is necessary to pay attention to certain “beacons”.

Immediate response

A psychological abuser will always wait for you to respond to him immediately.

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At the same time, the manipulator himself will allow himself to write to you with delays, and sometimes with long pauses.

A bunch of sentimentality

You've only known each other for a short time, and you're already being drowned in sentimentality?

You are probably dealing with a narcissist who is using this behavior to try to win you over as quickly as possible.

A blatant ambiguity

If you and your interlocutor have agreed to meet, but suddenly at the very last moment he declares that he will not come, rest assured that there is a narcissist next to you.

In this way, a psychological abuser puts you on what is called an emotional roller coaster, which certainly causes serious harm to your psyche.

Margarita Sadkovskaya Author: Margarita Sadkovskaya Editor of Internet resources


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  1. Immediate response
  2. A bunch of sentimentality
  3. A blatant ambiguity