Relationships can be a kind of business, a brand.
When a man and a woman are equal partners and their financial status and well-being depends on both of them.
This can be seen in artists when they perform as a duet or one of them produces the other; neither of the couple is clearly ready to lose their work for the sake of a momentary affair, so they would prefer to turn a blind eye to the betrayal.
And there is nothing wrong with this, if there is mutual understanding in a couple, people are able to coexist well with each other, such a solution has a right to exist.
Therefore, the girl who claimed in her youth that she would never forgive betrayal will now be ready to forgive it for her own well-being, we can say that she has really grown up and gained some experience. But no matter how much she talks about living for great love, in fact, it is finances and a good life that are at stake here.
And in some couples of various kinds of politicians, businessmen and other people who are obliged to have a good reputation as a reliable person, a family man, there may well even be agreements on sex on the side and the absence of claims.
There are cases that are even more interesting. When a couple of men and women in business are not equal. This happens in the same marriages where a businessman husband finds a young beautiful wife or a woman eventually becomes a housewife, and the man goes into business, as a result, he supports her, and if she finds out about the betrayal, what should she do? Go out into the street where there is no money, no work, no housing.
And if we imagine that their marriage was early, there may be a child on their hands, and the girl has no work experience or even education. Therefore, she will not go to a highly paid position, they will simply not take her, and to receive pennies means to lose the previous luxurious life. So all that remains is to adapt to the situation and accept it as it is. Moreover, he cheats and comes back, it means everything is fine, as the wife arranges.
The only thing that can be scary is age, because it is quite possible that he will decide to change his old wife for a new young and beautiful one, so the betrayal of such women is scary not because he is sleeping, but because he can leave, falling in love with another, younger one.
But it's not only the rich and famous who get married, right? Many women live as someone little known who doesn't have millions to his name, and it's hard to catch calculation in their love.
This means that the issue here is no longer about money and good condition, but about some feelings, emotions and experiences that a woman has. Although often the issue is only about her weakness in making a decision, but is it always necessary to make this decision? It happens that a woman initially accepts a man's betrayal as a given, believing that men are polygamous, and therefore sex with another is quite acceptable.
If you look at the relationships within their family, they have mutual understanding, the husband tries to hide his infidelities from his wife so that she doesn't know, they understand each other and exist quite comfortably. In essence, the family is ideal and suits both.
But sooner or later she catches one or another betrayal, or her friends tell her. It is these friends who will later tell her that she needs to break up. YES and our society does not welcome such male behavior, so the opinion from the outside is definitely BREAK UP, you need to dump the guy.
So the woman faces a choice, she doesn’t want it in her heart, she’s happy with everything, but everyone around her says that it’s bad, which means something needs to be changed, but she doesn’t want to change it, and so a conflict arises that is imposed from the outside and rejected by the subconscious, but the consciousness tries to accept something completely different.
But in any case, no matter what kind of betrayal there was, you shouldn’t judge others who stayed despite everything, not one point of view in a situation with love can be truly true or false, so any opinion will continue to exist, some will say that a man’s intimacy with a woman is betrayal, others will say that it’s just sex, betrayal is betrayal of the soul, others will call both cases betrayal and will say that after such a thing there is no relationship and it doesn’t even matter that later this same person will do the opposite with his experience and prove that relationships can exist, in any case, it is almost impossible to refute any opinion and any situation will exist.
Earlier we talked about how to deal with accumulated negativity and what effective methods exist for this.
