A woman may be confused when given a direct answer to the question: “What will make you happy?”, since she herself does not know what exactly she needs.
But there are still some rules that help a large number of men make their chosen ones happy.
Let's look at some of them in more detail.
Material security
Yes, a modern woman can sometimes earn even more than her chosen one. But if a lady enters into a relationship, she expects that it is the man who will provide for the family, and not her. He is the breadwinner and the head of the family.
Therefore, one of the main criteria for a woman’s peace of mind and happiness is the man’s financial ability to provide for the family.
You don't have to be a factory manager to satisfy this basic need. But keep in mind: a woman will demand that a man be able to support a certain material level of the family.
The ability to talk to your loved one
Everyone knows one female characteristic – it is a love of conversation. Yes, it is not typical for everyone. But most of the fair sex like to talk about different topics with the interlocutor.
Especially with a beloved man. And it is important for them not just to talk "one way" (this is not a confession), but to hear the opponent's response. The most offensive thing in such a situation: men let women speak out, and when she asks some questions on the topic of conversation, they answer dryly and monosyllabically.
And by doing this they greatly offend their other halves. Dear men, if you think that a woman can understand from your facial expressions, gestures or behavior what exactly you think, then you are deeply mistaken.
Ladies do not have the gift of telepathy, and not everyone has the art of “reading” non-verbal signs.
Therefore, if you want your dear and beloved woman to pay more attention to you, listen to your opinion and value your thoughts, then learn to fully conduct a dialogue with her.
Notice all the efforts of a woman to strengthen the relationship
Unfortunately, after the honeymoon period, the routine of "home - work" very quickly sets in. In the whirlwind of routine, few people maintain the habit of noticing and thanking their partner for the efforts spent to strengthen the relationship (creating home comfort, heart-to-heart talks, organizing joint leisure time).
Therefore, dear men, you shouldn’t think that housework is so simple, and that organizing cultural leisure is a simple female whim.
After all, a woman tries not so much for herself, but also for you! If she didn’t want to, she wouldn’t do all this work! Therefore, find the strength in yourself to notice the efforts of your other half and tell her at least an elementary “Thank you.” And ideally, you can also compliment her for her efforts.
Don't compare with other women
Many representatives of the strong half of humanity are sincerely surprised by the presence of a huge number of complexes in their other halves. And everyone asks the question: "Where did all this come from?" And the answer is quite simple and very offensive: such complexes were "helped" to grow by you, dear protectors and providers.
If a woman hears her beloved compare her to someone else (an actress, a relative, a colleague), then you can be sure that she will have a complex. And resentment too.
Therefore, try not to compare your woman with others at all. And if you do compare, then only to emphasize the merits of your beloved lady.
Obtaining a certain social status
And this is not the status of "Married". For a woman, the status should emphasize not only her position in society, but also the privileges that she and her children can receive.
Therefore, it should not be surprising that a woman actively encourages her man to get additional training, change his profession/job, or open his own business.
She simply needs to have a position in which she will not feel worse than her friends or relatives.
