Most men, sooner or later, face unrequited love and wonder what needs to be done to attract the lady of their heart.
What can I do to make her reciprocate?
The answer is simple, sometimes it is enough to adhere to certain rules or behavior strategies. Let's consider this issue in more detail.
Preparatory stage
First, you need to learn as much as possible about the object of your interest. This will help you get closer. You need to find out what she likes, what views she holds, what she is interested in.
You can talk to mutual friends who can organize a joint event during which you can get closer and talk about common topics. It is always easier in a company of people.
Friends can also hint at the young man's interest, which will give her the opportunity to look at the man as a potential partner.
It is also worth preparing yourself: gain confidence, try to interest the girl in yourself. The main thing is not to overdo it, confidence should never turn into impudence - this is repulsive.
If the preparatory stage was successful and you managed to establish contact with the girl, you can move on to active actions.
Phase of active actions
Perseverance
The ability to achieve goals is a quality inherent in real men. Do not give up after the first failure, women love when they are achieved. But at the same time, do not run after a woman, indulging any of her whims, persistence should not be confused with obsession.
A woman should see that a man is nearby, but at the same time he is not fixated only on her. She is important, a priority, she will be sought after, but she is not the only thing a man strives for.
Self-confidence
As trite as it may be, a man should behave like a man. He should radiate confidence, clearly know his strengths and weaknesses and use them.
Insecurity is off-putting; you want to feel sorry for such a man, not become his other half.
Honesty and openness
Honesty is captivating. You should tell the girl the truth about what you want from a relationship with her.
Spending time together
In order to start a relationship, a rapprochement is necessary, which only happens during joint activities.
Walks, dates, joint recreation – that’s what brings people together. It’s important to organize leisure time so that both are interested. It’s worth taking the initiative, suggesting places for recreation.
Care
It is important for a woman to be taken care of, to be interested in her well-being, to be supported, to be helped.
Caring can be expressed in many gestures: giving her a ride home, asking if she got there, offering coffee, feeding her during her lunch break, picking her up from work, etc. The main thing is that it is sincere.
Is it worth it?
It is always important to remember that any relationship is a responsibility. When making a woman fall in love with you, you should not forget that a man takes on obligations to her.
She is a person, not a toy that can be played with and then thrown away when no longer needed.
A man must be aware of the seriousness of his actions and if he comes to the understanding that he is not ready for something serious, it is better not to start.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man is indifferent to a woman .
