In the relationship between a man and a woman, everything is serious.
A woman is thinking about marriage and an engagement ring. But her partner doesn't speak out about it.
The woman thinks: "I'll have to take the initiative into my own hands!" Stop... How to avoid irritation in response... What to do to have a wedding ring on your ring finger and how to become a wife... What to do?
List of actions:
1. Subtly ask a man about marriage. In an informal setting, so that both are relaxed and he answers only what he thinks. It may turn out that he is not ready. No big deal!
2. Formulate and say what a woman wants from marriage. Don't submit to or plagiarize your partner's opinion. It's better to simply say how it seems.
3. It is better not to blow the problem out of proportion and not to quarrel. If opinions differ dramatically, then it is worth calming down. A man is also a person, and has the right to his own thoughts.
4. Position yourself in a "marriage" so that it is clear: a man must either love as much as a woman. Or love more. If the relationship is arranged differently, there is something wrong with what is currently in place. In this case, a woman is doomed to pull the family along, because the man will not have the motivation for this. And why is this necessary?
5. Convince a man that a wedding is not scary. This does not mean that he should take on all the responsibilities and become the breadwinner on the very first day. It will be enough to explain to him that this is an event that is done in stages. You can take action twenty years after the decision to get married. Decide together on the wedding. Choose a date together with your future husband. If this is decided only by the woman, then the chosen one will stop feeling like a man.
6. The main thing is "Calm down, just calm down." A conversation on such an important topic, if both are yelling, will lead to nothing. The partner will again have a sad experience and will start thinking about the chosen one in a negative way. Calm down reflects confidence in what is said and what is going to be done.
You shouldn't give him hints. If you want to get married, it's better to say it openly. Even if the chosen one doesn't want to get married, the woman made an attempt and showed that she is confident in her decision. It's also worth remembering that a man is not a thing - you can't tie him with a rope.
It is better to change your mind twenty times, think it over and try to understand yourself whether he is ready for marriage. Sometimes the outcome is distancing from each other. But being persistent and going ahead, just so that he becomes a husband is an act that breaks his trust, desire.
If you want to start a family, then both of you should have a formed concept of family. A wedding is a wedding, but then comes the inevitable crisis.
It is better to ask yourself the question about marriage once again. Is the woman herself really ready to exchange her maiden life for routine (or well-being and love)...
These tips will not help you to make a man yours right away. They will only help to show the seriousness of a woman's intentions. And the outcome can be anything. It is better to be prepared for this in advance.
The most important thing: if it is supposed to be a life partner, it will be felt. Good luck!
