Christina sat in her close friend's kitchen and complained about her female loneliness, wiping away tears.
Girls like Christina are usually called "iron ladies", but at that moment she really wanted to be weak and defenseless.
The thing is that she hid her difficult condition from the absence of a man from everyone around her very well. She complained about her strength and independence, and at the same time about men's fear of her.
She once had a suitable partner, perfect in every way. However, after a few weeks, he disappeared from her sight.
Sound familiar? Every woman has a friend whose happiness is kept from her by her own behavioral shortcomings. And it's worth getting to know them.
Rudeness and boorishness
It's great if a man can stand up for himself and his woman. But what should a long-single girl do?
Over time, her character traits become coarser and the defense of her personality takes the form of rudeness and boorishness. Impudence and provocative behavior simply eat into her essence, which is difficult to get rid of.
The young man quickly identifies the rude woman. She puts him in his place, calms down an arrogant colleague, exchanges a few unpleasant phrases with passengers on public transport. She doesn't like absolutely everything she sees.
Already at the stage of acquaintance, she pushes away a potential partner, which is not surprising. Who in their right mind would want to be in a relationship with an aggressive lady?
Unkempt appearance
A long-time single girl comes to the conclusion that she does not need to waste time on makeup and self-care, because no one appreciates or notices it anyway.
The fair sex evokes disgust and the feeling that she has lost interest in life.
In practice, the better a girl looks, the greater her chances of meeting a worthy partner.
Even if she is a single mother, she has five minutes to put on light makeup, rather than appear in public in her real form and with dirty hair.
Intrusive communication
This category of women has such a quality as excessive obsession. She most likely began an active search for a man after a long period of loneliness due to pressure from society.
To quickly relieve herself of the pressure, she dresses provocatively, puts on appropriate makeup, and behaves extremely persistently.
The lady turns even light flirting into a show of love, laughs loudly, behaves stupidly and calls the young man until the bitter end.
With such strange behavior, some girls try to show that she will not remain alone for long and that she will definitely, if not today, then tomorrow, be taken away by a prince on a white horse.
Unfortunately, she doesn't realize how stupid and cheap she looks from the outside and doesn't notice the smirks on the men's faces.
Of course, not all women make such mistakes. Nevertheless, loneliness leaves its mark on them. And over time, they do not want to let a man into their established life at all.
But they should take a risk and change their behavior, because there are many men looking for a chosen one.
