Not always do love relationships between a man and a woman end in registered marriage.
There are situations when after some time partners understand that they are not suitable for each other and they need to break up. Especially if a new love has appeared in the life of one of them.
What should a girl do if she decides to leave her boyfriend? How to break up with him without causing pain, further in the article.
If a woman wants to break up with a man in a civilized manner, without scandals and reproaches, she should take advice from experts.
Don't put off the conversation for too long
No matter how hard it is, you can't delay the unpleasant moment. Because it will only get worse later because of the time wasted.
Speak honestly
It is advisable not to tell something from afar or something unclear. You should clearly formulate your reason for breaking up without accusations against him, so that your partner does not have any doubts about it.
Don't enter into a new relationship without ending the previous one
Out of respect, you can give both of them some time to recover from the breakup. Psychologists say that quickly replacing an old relationship with a new one does not always end positively for everyone.
No need to remain friends
Even if a woman initially manages to part ways with a man on friendly terms, the situation may change for the worse over time. And such a position will also allow him to hope for the restoration of relations. Or, in extreme cases, for sex with friends.
Give your partner a chance to speak
You shouldn't listen to insults directed at you. And it's simply necessary to answer the guy's questions. So that there are no omissions or misunderstandings left between the exes.
Part only in private
You can't sort things out in the presence of strangers. After all, the man will find himself in an awkward position and will receive psychological trauma. Out of respect for him, it is better to solve the problem without witnesses.
You can write a letter
If you don't have the courage to meet a man and tell him about the breakup in person, then it is recommended to inform him about the breakup in writing. But only so that he can read it himself.
Free yourself from guilt
A woman should put aside any remorse. She should allow herself to be happy with another person, and also allow her ex-partner to build a personal life.
Don't conflict when breaking up
There is no need to tell a guy about his bad qualities that make you leave him. It is better to remember the happy moments of your life together than the bad memories during a breakup.
Before delivering negative news to a man, a woman needs to put herself in his shoes.
Imagine his reaction to the end of the relationship. Then saying goodbye to your ex-partner will not be so painful and traumatic.
Earlier we talked about how to deal with accumulated negativity and what effective methods exist for this.
