Every woman has the ability to flirt by nature.
But, unfortunately, not every lady can “gracefully provoke a man to continue the relationship.”
So, let's figure out what exactly a woman should know when she decides to use flirting.
Appearance
The first and main thing that gives information about a person before he starts talking is his entire appearance. This also applies to flirting.
If you want to have a pleasant evening (even if you dream of getting married!), then you should avoid provocatively short skirts and very deep necklines.
If you use such clothes, you will only convince your potential suitor that you only want sex. And nothing more. It is almost impossible to convince him otherwise.
Voice
It should be soft, gentle and murmuring, like a spring stream. It is a mistake to think that the voice does not play a role in flirting. And it does! Some men openly admit that they were ready to listen to their interlocutor for hours, because she had a very beautiful and pleasant voice.
Therefore, before “starting the game” it is worth “setting up” the voice so that there is not even a hint of the image of a market trader or a stern boss.
Sight
Direct eye contact helps to interest a man and provoke him to continue the acquaintance. But it is worth noting that the look should not be “pressing” and too long.
This way you will only "earn" a reputation as an obsessive person who stubbornly runs after men. Therefore, the gaze should "slide" around the room, occasionally stopping at the "right object".
The duration of the "stop" should not be longer than 3 seconds. More time will mean obsession, and less - simply obtaining information about the people around.
The initiative belongs to the man
No matter what “advanced and bold” ladies say about how “a 21st century woman should take the initiative when meeting someone”, it’s better to leave this advice aside.
Remember that you are a beautiful and fragile woman, who should be looked after by men. And not you who should persistently run after them! This is not the Olympics, after all, where you have to fight for medals.
Give men the opportunity to approach you and make acquaintances on their own. Let them know that you value independence in a man. And that you respect yourself, so the "Olympic distance running" is postponed until another time.
Smile
A calm and soft smile attracts attention much more than a provocative outfit.
After all, this serves as silent proof that the woman has no serious problems behind her, and those that are in her life are successfully solved by the lady herself. Without involving additional forces.
Also, a light and cheerful smile serves as confirmation of the ability to separate problems from rest, find time for yourself and immerse yourself in fun.
This is quite rare among modern women. Since in most cases, "beautiful princesses" use practiced polite smiles that do not reflect the real emotions of the owner.
This makes men wary. After all, you never know what's going on in her life. It's better to stay away.
Don't get hung up on the result
The biggest mistake a woman makes is to get fixated on getting a certain result. This can make her movements stiff, her laughter unnatural, and her voice too loud.
In other words, all your careful efforts to find a partner may go down the drain.
Better calm down and allow yourself to enjoy the pleasant attention from men. Although it may sound a bit hackneyed, but you deserve it!
For reference
Flirting or flirting is a form of social and sexual behavior that involves body language, verbal, and written communication between people.
