There are very few experts in building long, harmonious and happy relationships, so many have to learn from their own mistakes.
But there are still a number of tips that you can take on board. They will help you not to ruin the relationships that are truly dear to you.
There are obvious things that can speed up a breakup or divorce. But there are certain actions that have the same effect, but seem harmless.
They become commonplace and slowly “eat away” all love and affection, leaving only a strong desire to break off the hateful relationship.
Game of silence
This habit does not contribute to the resolution of the conflict. Communication will, of course, be restored, but the problems will remain at the same level.
Comparison with the former
It's not a regular occurrence, but from time to time many men and women resort to this manipulative technique.
At first glance, it seems like everything is harmless, but in reality, you are making your partner doubt themselves and the relationship.
Teasing and insults
It is unlikely that anyone would like to hear insults addressed to them on a regular basis. Some try to justify themselves: supposedly it was said as a joke.
"You never..."
Many people go to extremes during a quarrel and start voicing their complaints with the words "you never...". For example, "You never do what I ask."
In fact, this is an exaggeration, which the speaker himself knows, but resentment prevents one from thinking clearly. As a result, you cause irritation and anger in your partner.
Previously, we talked about 3 ways to improve your relationship with your partner without drama and tedious conversations.
