Not every person has the temperament to easily meet and communicate with strangers.
However, there are some character traits that can easily scare off even an inveterate extrovert.
What can push people away?
It is dangerous to be both overly emotional and to completely hide your feelings from others. Agree, it is difficult to communicate with someone who goes into deep defense when trying to communicate or who violates other people's boundaries with their excessive emotionality.
It is unlikely that your interlocutor will like someone who chatters incessantly, not allowing the opponent to insert even two words into this verbal stream.
Another trait is low self-esteem, which comes out in normal conversation. Some may feel that they are being talked to only to be pitied.
Anxiety is also a dangerous trait for communication. A person can see a catch where there is not even a hint of it, and with his suspiciousness forces the interlocutor to break off communication.
