Every woman dreams that her beloved belongs only to her.
But, unfortunately, there are not enough free men for everyone.
That's why some women decide to have a married lover. Let's try to figure out whether such relationships can be happy and long-term.
What does a woman expect?
Women who dare to have an affair with a married man can differ greatly from each other in terms of their level of intelligence, education and other qualities.
Among them there are both cold, calculating bitches and naive dreamers who believe that true love can overcome any obstacles.
Here are the main reasons that can push a representative of the fairer sex into the arms of someone else's husband:
1. The desire for profit. If a man is rich or influential, there will always be a woman who wants to have a relationship with him, hoping that he will contribute to her financial well-being or help her make a career. Of course, we are not talking about love here.
2. The desire to have a permanent partner for sex. Some business women are so busy with work and career that they have almost no time for a serious relationship with a single man. They do not seek to take their lover away from his family, and such an affair is considered simply as an outlet.
3. Falling in love. Sometimes women fall seriously in love with married men. In such cases, they expect that the man loves them too and will eventually leave the family.
In the first two cases, the woman soberly assesses the circumstances and is quite happy with what she has. But if we are talking about love, the situation becomes much more complicated.
No matter how much a mistress convinces herself that she is happy in such a relationship and does not want to take her beloved away from the family, in reality this is not so.
It's hard to be happy knowing that the person you love is hugging and kissing another at night.
What does a man expect?
Surveys of psychologists show that 90% of married men have affairs on the side solely for the sake of variety. At the same time, they do not even think about leaving their family for a mistress.
The remaining 10% are really carried away and take such relationships seriously. But, as experience shows, a man leaves his wife for a mistress only in cases when family life for some reason ceases to suit them.
In other cases, if everything is fine in the family, then even a passionate affair on the side is unlikely to be a reason for dissolving the marriage bond.
Moreover, most husbands who have mistresses love their wives, but believe that a small affair on the side cannot interfere with their marriage.
Therefore, when a mistress suddenly begins to make some serious demands on a man, he experiences panic, confusion and irritation.
Is there a happy ending?
Of course, sometimes it happens that a man confesses everything to his wife and then leaves the family for his mistress.
There are also situations when men live for years in two families, and all participants in the triangle feel great. But, as life shows, in most cases, a love affair between a single woman and a married man lasts for three years at most, after which it ends in a breakup.
Men are most often the ones who initiate ending an affair. They break off relations with their mistresses for two reasons: when the relationship becomes boring, or if there is a threat to their marriage.
It is clear that a woman who has managed to get used to a man, and maybe even fall in love with him, suffers cruelly. Therefore, before starting a relationship with a married man, you need to think carefully whether the game is worth the candle.
Previously, we talked about how to achieve deep understanding with your partner .
