These topics are not recommended to be touched upon during a first date, either for women or men.
There are issues that are not recommended to be discussed in the early stages of dating.
There are several topics that can turn a first date into your last.
"Do you want to start a family?"
Psychologists admit that marriage and children are not the best topic of conversation during a first date.
If you want to talk about the future, it’s better to ask this question: “Who do you see yourself as in ten years?”
"Why did you break up with your ex?"
A very risky question that clearly violates personal boundaries.
No one will feel comfortable being asked about their past relationships. It's better to focus on common interests and plans.
"How much do you earn?"
The topic of making money may not be the best one for a first date.
If you want to know the answer about income, it’s better to start with this question: “Do you like your job?”
Religion and Politics
These are very serious topics that are not suitable for light entertainment.
But they can easily cause an argument or irritation in a partner.
Complaints and problems
It is not recommended to include complaints about problems in the family or at work in the conversation.
It's better to focus on the positive aspects so that you have pleasant memories of the date and want to repeat it.
Complexes and fears
You shouldn't reveal your weaknesses to your partner.
It is better to demonstrate the best character traits, talk about successes and skills. But here it is also important not to overdo it.
Intimacy and everything connected with it
It's better to get to know your partner better before touching on such topics.
If you persist too much in this direction, then the corresponding conclusions will inevitably arise and the date will definitely be the first and last.
Frivolous jokes are forbidden. In some cases they may be successful, but there are people who may react negatively to them.
To understand which topics are best not to touch on, you should listen carefully to your interlocutor and ask the right questions.
Then communication will definitely work out and your partner will look forward to a new meeting.
"When will we meet again?"
It is better to leave some ambiguity, intrigue. The impressions from the first meeting will remain forever, so the charm of the moment should work to the fullest.
