Discord in relationships happens for a reason.
The problem is that many people feel they are not to blame for the breakdown of their love relationship.
They are ready to give a thousand reasons just to absolve themselves of blame.
Are you also having trouble with your partner? Maybe you have put your other half in a hopeless situation? Find out for sure!
You are completely different
Your plans diverged from the start, as did your dreams. However, you took a risk by linking your destinies together.
You did not give up trying to instill your system of views in your other half. To achieve your cherished goal, you used various means - tenderness, affection and even force. But the chosen one turned out to be steadfast and unshakable.
He has his own rhythm of life and his own convictions. He will not renounce them under any pretext.
Nevertheless, you do not give up. But the more you try to re-educate your life partner, the colder your relationship becomes. Nothing will come of this empty undertaking.
You are a real perfectionist.
There should be perfect order on the shelves, in the wardrobe, in the bedroom and in the kitchen. The same applies to life. You prefer regularity and order.
Naturally, you are picky about cleanliness. You demand that your partner not litter, not throw things around.
But the chosen one is fundamentally different from you. He likes chaos and creative disorder. He feels comfortable in such an environment.
He doesn't understand how one can get hung up on the little things of life. There are more important things in life than shiny floors, ironed clothes, and books arranged in alphabetical order.
You are a very hasty person.
You want to do everything at once. Every day of yours should be as productive as possible. You are good at managing your time.
Your life partner does not do anything in a hurry. He thinks everything over for a long time, weighs the pros and cons.
Does this feature of your loved one make you nervous? Do you not want to put up with it? In fact, you are creating a problem out of nothing.
Try to ease up. It is not easy for a slow person to speed up. This is their temperament, you cannot change it.
Are you a fast-reacting person? Then help your partner out. Teach them some time-saving tricks. Over time, the difference in pace will narrow, and it will become easier for both of you.
You don't show your love in any way.
Your partner is deprived of affection, tenderness, and care.
Not every person is capable of being affectionate, caring and gentle. Some individuals persistently refrain from showing feelings.
Does your life partner seem ungrateful and picky? Or maybe your efforts are not enough to establish an idyll?
Surely he has his own vision of the problem. You work, improve the house, earn money, but forget about romance. But your partner needs kisses, hugs, kind words and romantic evenings.
You never give in to your other half
You risk causing a big scandal because you resist to the last.
You are making a big mistake. Let your life partner win at least in a small dispute. Do not take all the credit for yourself, do not defend your point of view so fiercely. Remember: insurmountable contradictions can separate you forever. Compliance will not hurt you, believe me.
You don't value your partner
You don't have to be interested in what your chosen one likes. However, you have no right to laugh at his hobbies.
Don't forbid your loved one to do what they love, don't give them ultimatums. This is, at the very least, selfish and cruel. Are you irritated by your chosen one's hobby? Switch to something useful or take care of yourself.
You don't trust someone close to you
It's not about jealousy, but about a banal habit. You know perfectly well that your partner has no one but you. But this knowledge does not stop you from looking for a catch in everything.
Are you constantly suspicious of your loved one? And aren't you afraid that he will really cheat on you out of despair? Then your worst fears will come true. And you will be to blame!
