All love relationships lose their romance over time.
This is followed by the partners getting used to each other, which is characterized by minor quarrels and some disagreements.
But there are even more terrible things that newlyweds will not be able to protect themselves from.
What disadvantages will newlyweds have to put up with in order to save their marriage?
Divergence of interests
This phenomenon will happen abruptly. The fact is that the masks of the husband and wife that they wore before the wedding will instantly fall off after the celebration.
From now on, these people are together and they don't need to make a good impression on each other.
If a representative of the stronger sex likes to listen to his chosen one talk about Italy, Egypt, France and Mexico, this does not mean that after becoming a legal husband, he will invite his wife to visit these countries and continue traveling further.
Moreover, he can say the opposite: “I want to spend my whole life in my hometown. No trips abroad!”
Often men agree and make vain promises to women, just to get them off their backs. Not every person is ready to leave their comfort zone, being a homebody by nature.
Why don't future husbands tell women the truth from the very beginning?
They are afraid of being rejected, so they agree with their lovers. But family life opens the eyes of young wives.
Difficult to get used to and complete disappointment
Many couples begin to catch themselves thinking that it would be wonderful to take a break from their other half for a week or two.
Unfortunately, all partners have to adjust to each other. It's about getting used to each other. At this time, numerous problems arise, new to both spouses.
During their life together, husbands learn that their spouses have an unimaginable amount of shoes and clothes that they have nowhere to put.
The wives, in turn, are faced with a pile of dirty shirts and empty bottles scattered throughout the apartment.
And women's hair on a comb and men's snoring are already integral parts of everyday life.
United relatives
From now on, the husband and wife do not have separate relatives. All relatives after the conclusion of the sacred marriage automatically become common for both partners.
Yes, the husband will have to endure his wife's relatives, and the wife will have to humbly accept the intrusive advice of her husband's relatives. There is nothing to be done about it.
As luck would have it, most relatives turn out to be unbearable.
They interfere in the personal life of a young couple, command, teach how to live, point out mistakes. These interventions often bring discord into the family.
The husband and wife begin to quarrel.
The accusations against restless relatives will only stop if the partners can come to an agreement.
The ideal option is to ask both relatives to keep their opinions to themselves. In marriage, everything is decided by two people.
When a third party intervenes, a "brutal massacre" begins.
Sacrificing needs and desires.
Most spouses forget about their own interests when it comes to their family happiness.
Sometimes it’s easier to give up something than to ruin your relationship with your loved one.
At first, it is difficult for everyone, but gradually people learn to make concessions to each other, agree, and negotiate. If both continue to be stubborn and do things their own way, their idyll will come to an end.
Financial difficulties
In rare cases, newlyweds have everything at once. For this, at least one spouse must have rich and generous parents.
Why did we start talking about parental generosity? It's just that not all wealthy fathers and mothers are ready to carry an adult child and his family on their necks.
There are known cases where children left a luxurious home and lived with their other half in terrible conditions.
A desperate need cannot destroy true love.
The young people will certainly want to overcome all the difficulties and stay together despite the difficult circumstances.
A common goal unites spouses, motivates them, and helps them achieve a common victory.
It is much more difficult to bear responsibility and work alone. A passive and lazy partner will become a burden for his or her proactive other half.
A union in which two people are trying their best to improve their living conditions is priceless. Spouses who have been through fire, water and copper pipes rarely get divorced.
An unexpected change of roles
Sometimes spouses have to switch roles for a while. People do this because they put family interests above all else.
Of course, no one would give up the position of director of an advertising agency in favor of the illusory career of a sculptor.
All dreams will instantly disappear when a prestigious job and a high salary loom on the horizon.
Unfortunately, a hobby cannot always feed a family man.
Regrets about a serious step
Spouses sometimes regret that they tied the knot so early. Some, after some time, begin to doubt the correctness of their own choice.
In this situation, you can't let your tongue loose. Like-minded people are found quickly when a person wants it.
But their support can cause a lot of harm to young spouses.
Especially if the interlocutors advise the complaining partner to divorce the lousy other half.
All spouses who wish to complain freely are required to find neutral listeners (not friends or relatives).
Only disinterested people will help to understand the problem and find a solution.
