We will not touch on the moral component of female infidelity in this article, but will simply tell men what methods can be used to determine a wife’s infidelity and what signs of infidelity will give her away!
Five Ways to Tell if Your Wife Is Cheating
If you are increasingly surprised by the unusual behavior of your wife, and anxious thoughts creep into your head that she has another man, then it is time for you to check your wife for fidelity. You can do this in the following ways:
Inspect your wife's things
Wait until your beloved disappears into the bathroom for a long time or goes to visit her friends, and carefully examine her things.
Look for someone else's men's hair, smell and identify the scent of someone else's men's cologne, rummage through pockets and purses and look for rubber products.
If you see, smell or find something, then you have every right to move on to the second method.
Caught red-handed
Tell your wife about a week-long business trip or a visit to distant relatives in another city. You yourself go to a hotel or to a trusted friend's home.
In a day or two, show up at your home closer to night and, as if nothing had happened, inspect all the rooms, closets and the balcony. If your lover is nowhere to be found, perhaps you were just unlucky and your wife made a date for another time.
Therefore, it would be a good idea to keep an eye on your wife before your visit.
Total presence
In this method, you need to deprive your wife of the opportunity to spend her free time without your presence. Accompany your spouse to work and meet her from the office. Go shopping and visiting with her. Spend all weekends with your wife. In short, be with your spouse all the time.
If after such total presence your spouse does not experience happiness, but on the contrary, categorically demands to be left alone, then you should think: why is she not happy with your company?
Use technology
In our digital age, it won't be difficult for you to buy and install miniature surveillance cameras in your apartment. Also, for greater reliability, you can install a hidden "bug" and microphone on your wife's clothes or handbag.
Just don't skimp on money and buy quality equipment so that it doesn't break down at the most crucial moment. If you don't have money for cameras and microphones, there are now a lot of mobile applications that will help you track your spouse's movements.
Conversation with my wife
This method should only be used if you are well versed in your wife's behavioral reactions! Tell your spouse directly that you suspect her of cheating and watch her reaction.
Of course, she won't confess and won't fall on her knees before you to beg for forgiveness. But you don't need that. You need to carefully analyze her behavior and determine the truth from it.
Nine Signs Your Wife Is Cheating
If you do not want to offend your wife with your expressed suspicions and actions, then you can determine her infidelity by nine signs:
1. Evening calls, SMS and messages in messenger. If your spouse's face changes during the next call or constantly texts someone with a mysterious smile, then you should think about her fidelity.
2. Expensive things. New diamond earrings or a new expensive phone that you didn't pay for literally scream that they were given to you by a male admirer.
3. Appearance. As a rule, when a lover appears, a woman begins to look much better than usual. It's a shame, of course, but this is a sure sign of betrayal.
4. Suspicious affection. It's funny, but because of the feeling of guilt for cheating, the woman becomes more affectionate and friendly with her husband.
5. Constant delays and absences. If your wife has started to constantly stay late at work and unexpectedly rush off to visit a friend, it is worth keeping an eye on her and making sure of her true whereabouts.
6. Excessive nervousness. This is different from affection. Due to constant stress associated with infidelity, the wife becomes nervous and irritable.
7. Decline of intimate relationships. Since the wife gets satisfaction from another man, you become unnecessary.
8. The smell of alcohol. Dating on the side is almost always accompanied by the consumption of alcoholic beverages. So if your teetotal wife often comes home smelling of alcohol, then it's all over.
9. Withdrawal and silence. By completely switching to another man, a wife can constantly think about him and completely forget about your existence.
At the end of the article, I would like to address women so that they do not take offense at us, because all the methods and most of the signs listed above can also be applied to identifying male infidelity!
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man is indifferent to a woman .