Love relationships are an interesting and unpredictable thing. Ladies hope that their beloved will become better. But gentlemen are sure that their beloved woman will never leave.
It's amazing how even the most mundane things can end a promising relationship.
They should not be voiced during communication. We are talking about 4 male actions towards women.
Men criticize women's appearance
Let's take as an example a promising programmer whose career is on the rise. He has a small one-room apartment and some savings. But here's the problem: he's unlucky in love affairs.
It seems that the guy does not skimp on bouquets of snow-white roses, invites girls to a restaurant and to the theater. But they all leave as one, throwing the phrase after him: "I will not sacrifice myself!"
What is the mistake of the outstanding programmer? Why couldn't he find love?
The guy periodically forced his lovers to change their appearance. Moreover, he himself chose their preferred hair color, hairstyle and style of clothing. He persuaded brunettes to become blondes.
He forced cheerful and plump laughers to lose weight and laugh quietly. The guy was unlucky: all the representatives of the weaker sex broke off relations with him.
They did not want to follow his wishes, to sacrifice their individuality and freedom of choice. The programmer was perplexed: "Did I do something bad? After all, I wanted to change them for the better!"
Men endlessly start talking about ex-girlfriends
It is unclear what the representatives of the stronger sex are trying to achieve. Perhaps they want women to pity them. Perhaps their natural spontaneity is overflowing.
Whatever the real reason, revealing details of your past love life to a new girlfriend is simply unacceptable. A man should not describe his previous lovers down to the smallest detail.
Yes, a well-mannered and modest young lady will calmly listen to her talkative chosen one and nod to him. However, his stories will forever leave a wound in the girl's heart.
It will be difficult for her to get rid of jealousy and constant comparisons. Such excessive revelation on the part of a man threatens a further breakup.
Men spend all their free time with friends
There are some representatives of the stronger sex who believe that romances with girls are fleeting, but friendship with their own kind is eternal.
They are all cruelly mistaken. As a rule, men understand this too late. For example, when they lose friends.
Many young people behave badly with their lovers. Their attitude is characterized by the following actions:
- devote all weekends to communication and relaxation with friends, leaving their loved one bored alone;
- do not answer calls from their beloved while relaxing with friends;
- They help their friends solve difficult issues, but brush off the requests and problems of their chosen one.
In romantic relationships of mature people, everything is balanced. They do not get hung up on their other half, do not dissolve in it.
In addition, they do not forget about social connections. This means the following: a wise man will never leave his girlfriend to spend all the holidays with friends outside the city, but he will not miss his best friend's birthday either, to watch TV series with his beloved until late at night. In general, no one will be offended.
Men lie to save relationships
Now another example: a girl named Nastya wants to have two children with her future husband.
She has a lot of plans and dreams for her future offspring. She has even chosen their names and decided which kindergarten and school they will go to.
The girl does not hide her desires and plans from her lover, because she trusts him completely. She thinks that he also dreams of a strong family, fun children's parties and joint events on weekends. But the guy has a different opinion on this matter - he is childfree.
The young man nods silently, as if in agreement, when the conversation turns to having children. He is afraid of losing his beloved girl, but the very thought of having heirs causes him terrible fear.
One day the young lady will learn the truth about her chosen one and break off relations with him. It cannot be otherwise, because he will never give her the baby that the girl has long dreamed of.
The guy will also suffer losses. He will miss out on several months (or maybe even years). He could have spent this time on an honest and harmonious love affair with an understanding lover. She would definitely not force him to have children and would not bother him about the wedding.
Earlier it became known what the concept of hopelessly in love means.
