It would seem that there is nothing more obvious than avoiding an abusive relationship after you have already been in one.
However, many people continue to step on the same rake in subsequent relationships.
We look into the reasons why even rational people often act this way.
Firstly, people often look for a strong partner because they themselves tend to be weak. A person relies on their other half in everything, while always finding an excuse for rudeness towards themselves.
The same applies to those people who have not had an example of a harmonious relationship before their eyes. They may simply not know that they are in a relationship with an abuser.
And there are those who seek benefits from their position. For example, a person sincerely believes that he has the power to re-educate a tyrant.
There is also a category that knows that after another act of violence, the abuser will begin to feel tormented by his conscience, and he will rush home with gifts.