And while every parent is different, there are certain principles that help raise healthy, successful, and happy children.
By using these principles, you can raise healthy, successful, and happy children who are prepared for any challenges life may present them with.
Respect the child's individuality
Each child is unique and has his own abilities, interests, character and pace of development.
Don't compare your child to other children and don't impose your expectations and dreams on them. Recognize and appreciate their unique characteristics and support their choices.
Treat your child as an individual
Children are not your property or an extension of your ego. They have their own interests, opinions, feelings and rights.
Don't try to impose your will on them or dictate how they should live. Give them the opportunity to make their own decisions and be responsible for them.
Listen to your children and communicate with them
Children need your attention and understanding. Don't ignore their questions, problems or complaints.
Try to be open and honest with them. Don't be afraid to admit your mistakes or apologize to them. Show them your emotions and feelings.
Be a good example for your children
Children learn from you more than from your words. They copy your behavior, manners, values, and attitude towards others.
So try to be the person you want your children to be in the future.
Set reasonable boundaries and rules for your children.
Children need structure and order to feel safe and comfortable. Don't be too strict or too soft.
Find a middle ground between authoritarianism and democracy. Explain to your children the meaning and purpose of the rules, as well as the consequences for breaking them.
Encourage your children for their successes and support them when they fail.
Children need to know that you are proud of them for their achievements and that you do not judge them for their mistakes.
Don't compare your children to other children or to your expectations. Recognize their individuality and uniqueness.
Encourage your children to develop in different areas
Children have different talents and abilities that need to be discovered and developed. Don't limit your children's interests to one area or direction.
Provide them with a variety of opportunities to learn, create, play, and socialize.
Take care of your children's physical and mental health
Children need enough nutrition, sleep, rest and physical activity to grow and develop normally.
They should also feel happy, confident and loved. Do not allow stress, violence or abuse towards your children.
Consider the age characteristics of your children
Children go through different stages of development that require different approaches to parenting.
Don't ask your children to do more or less than they can give according to their age. Be prepared for changes in your children's behavior, interests, or needs as they grow.
Correct your child's negative behavior constructively
Children do not always behave the way we would like or expect them to. They may be disobedient, aggressive, deceitful, capricious or irresponsible.
In such cases, it is important to correct the child’s negative behavior constructively: without shouting, threats, punishment or humiliation.
Instead, you need to calmly explain to your child the reason for your disapproval, show him alternative behavior, help him understand his mistakes and apologize for them.
Enjoy parenthood and the time you spend with your children. Parenthood is not only a responsibility, but also a joy and pleasure.
Don't forget to show love, affection and humor in your relationships with your children. Don't miss the opportunity to play with them, read them a book or watch a movie together.
