Many people suffer from loneliness.
Sometimes it seems to us that it is impossible to find a person with whom our relationship will last more than one date.
It's perfectly normal to want love and a partner, so there's no need to give it up! Instead, check out these 7 reasons that might give you an answer to why you haven't met your soulmate yet.
You are still suffering from your previous relationship.
If you are trying to build a new relationship while you still love or are attached to your previous partner, do not expect miracles. Do not seek a new relationship just to forget your previous partner.
This isn't fair to you or the person you're trying to build a new relationship with. Take time to heal from your previous relationship. Be patient and kind to yourself.
You have high expectations
Some people dream of a prince, and some want their girlfriend to be perfect in every way. But real life with real people is a completely different story. First of all, focus on yourself. How do you look? What can you offer to another person? Are you comfortable in your own life?
It is well known that self-confidence wins. That is why you should first work on having enough self-confidence, but at the same time you should not have unrealistic expectations from others.
You are waiting for someone who cannot be yours
Sure, miracles happen, but waiting for someone who is already in a relationship is stupid. Or do you think that the ideal soulmate is someone who is ready to break off a relationship because of someone else's sympathy?
If you fell in love with someone, but they are in a relationship, then distance yourself from them and do not try to seduce them. Be patient with yourself and switch your attention to something else.
But even if this person starts promising you to wait for him, it is better to know: such promises are rarely kept.
You have trust issues
Are you also thinking, “They’re all the same!” or “They all want the same thing!”? We hear things like this a lot from both men and women. Well, there’s definitely some truth to these statements, especially if you keep falling in love with the same type of people. But don’t generalize everyone.
There's a reason you've been dealing with the same type so far. Don't push people away by being overly distrustful. It's not their fault your ex hurt you.
Be open with others and give them the opportunity to prove that they are different from your ex.
You are afraid of serious relationships
Lack of self-confidence, a subconscious fear that you are not good enough, attractive enough, or will be too dependent on your partner, can prevent you from finding your soulmate.
It is also very bad if you are afraid that you will be “weak” in relation to love or that your life will change for the worse because of it.
You can build an invisible wall. That's why you have to work on yourself before you start a relationship. Discover the spiritual obstacles within you and overcome them.
You desperately want to be loved.
The peacock's tail-showing behavior works well only in the animal world. For most people, this behavior only causes ridicule, pity, and even irritation.
It is necessary to harmonize with others or effectively attract attention to yourself. Do not wear miniskirts and high heels if you are not comfortable in them at all. Be yourself. Your person will definitely appreciate it.
You want things to move too fast.
Many people believe in the "biological clock", so there are those who are ready to see their soulmate in every second person and literally run after him.
Often, driven by fear of time, we don't realize that the attraction is not mutual or that we are rushing into a toxic, one-sided relationship.
It is also very bad for your state if you are already planning your wedding and naming your children on your first date.
So think twice about who you want to be in a relationship with, and if you are confident in your choice, don't try to force a wedding out of it next week.
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Expert: Elena Gutyro
