Many people notice that as the years go by they have fewer and fewer friends. Has anyone ever thought about why this happens?
There are 7 reasons that make sense to analyze in more detail. Of course, "random" friends often disappear from life, but situations are different.
Change in life circumstances
Everyone experiences changes in their lives, these include:
- moving;
- change jobs;
- family obligations.
These changes may lead to changes in basic interests and preferences.
Different interests and values
Over time, interests and values may change, which may lead to differences with friends who still have different priorities.
A mismatch in values can lead to a reduction in common topics for discussion and a loss of interest.
Lack of time and commitment
Modern life requires a lot of physical and emotional costs, so there is simply no time left for friendship. The result is very simple - there is not enough time, so friendship gradually fades away.
Conflicts and misunderstandings
Conflicts and misunderstandings can arise in any relationship, including friendships. Poor conflict resolution or inconsistent communication can lead to distance between friends.
Professional and personal growth
Everyone strives for personal and professional development, which can lead to a change in social circle.
Different career and personal growth paths can lead to the fact that no one will meet as friends.
Lack of attention
Maintaining a healthy relationship takes time, energy and effort.
A simple example: if you don't write to your friend for months, will you be able to maintain a normal relationship? In life, you always need to find a balance and make the first move.
Changing priorities
As you age, priorities can change, and things that seemed important in the past can lose their meaning. This can lead to you simply losing interest in your friends.
A simple example: you can meet with friends on Friday evenings, but the desire to drink and have a “fun” time disappears, which deprives such meetings of any meaning.
We have previously reported on situations in which it is better to remain silent .
Expert: Elena Gutyro
