Sometimes it seems that a loved one will not betray or lie. However, in life, not everything is so simple.
Deception causes disappointment and other unpleasant emotions.
What to do if a loved one has deceived you? The expert of the portal "MOS SMI" on astrology, esotericism and psychology Elena Gutyro will tell you about this.
Working with yourself
First of all, it is important to understand your feelings and emotions. Think about whether you are calm at the moment? What emotions are you experiencing? Perhaps it is fear or anger. What do you want from your loved one in the end?
This kind of research will help you calm down.
Conversation with a liar
Don't rush at your partner with fists and shouts. It's better to talk calmly and find out the reason for the deception. Perhaps the person is simply not ready or afraid to tell the truth.
It is also important to understand what emotions the person is experiencing. Maybe he is in pain, sad and needs your help.
In a conversation, you need to describe your feelings so that your partner understands you. Perhaps an open conversation will help protect the relationship from further lies.
In addition, it is worth finding out whether the person is ready for an honest relationship. If yes, then you can give the person a chance to improve. If not, then you need to decide whether you need such a relationship.
Now you know what to do in a situation where you are being cheated.
Previously, we talked about how to cope with long-distance relationships .
Expert: Elena Gutyro
