What points do smart women pay special attention to?
How do you prepare yourself for a new relationship?
First, they end the old love affair, then they recuperate after the breakup. After all the procedures, the wise ladies mentally prepare for new acquaintances.
It is impossible to build something new on the ruins of the old. But that is not the worst thing. Some women manage to have an affair with a new admirer under the nose of their current partner. Why is it wrong to do this?
Your newly-made gentleman will be disappointed in you, and the hated chosen one will decide that you want to insult him with this gesture. Of course, he will try to ruin your plans. Do not pit two men against each other if you do not want trouble. Do not be torn into two parts, finally choose one candidate!
You don't know how to make a sensible choice? Do you doubt your feelings? You need an adequate pause. Explain everything to men and let them be happy without you. Don't be afraid, there is nothing wrong with a dose of loneliness. You will find a lot of advantages and decide everything for yourself once and for all.
They get to know their potential partner closely. It is important for them to make sure that he is free and sincere, that there is no room in his heart for another woman.
You are a unique person. There are no others like you. That is why you are not obliged to heal the emotional wounds of your suitor and be a shoulder to cry on.
Your job is to make sure that your friend is looking for a life partner, not a savior and comforter. Otherwise, you will become a stranger to him as soon as he recovers from the pain of love.
By the way, this rule applies to you too. Don't make new acquaintances for the sake of consolation, otherwise you'll end up alone!
They rethink their past love affair before starting a new romance, and learn useful lessons for themselves.
Don't repeat old mistakes, don't get into a bad story again! The accumulated experience is enough for you to do everything right this time.
Even if you have been through fire, water and copper pipes, you must admit that these tests have changed you for the better. Without them, you would not know which men are best to stay away from. Now you will determine for sure who is right for you and who is not.
They try to find out what their future chosen one is really like even before the honeymoon period begins.
Talk to your potential partner more closely to understand who is in front of you. You need to make sure that this man is not:
- greedy;
- selfish;
- cruel;
- vile.
You are too smart and resourceful to fall into the clutches of a scoundrel or a gigolo.
Study the character and habits of the new gentleman, get to know his friends. Once you have collected the basic information, you will have all the trump cards in your hands. You will learn the true nature of your potential chosen one and will be able to move on.
They find out from the man what kind of relationship he dreams of, what kind of future wife he sees. All this happens before the first passionate night.
Surely you don't want to face serious discrepancies at the beginning of your family life. Is your friend a tireless life-waster? And you are a quiet homebody, dreaming of children and family comfort? Then you won't get along together. It's better to find out such details right away, so as not to bite your elbows later.
By the way, many couples' unions often collapse because of different goals. Do you want to spend your whole life doing housework? And your potential boyfriend wants you to earn as much as he does? You have nothing to do together, you can't even become friends. Different priorities are to blame.
They forget about the negative experience they have received. All past mistakes and troubles from old relationships are left behind. Only new achievements lie ahead!
Let go of the past, it's all over. You are a new person now. Your ex-lover must disappear from your life once and for all. His place will be taken by another - a more worthy and promising man. Don't be afraid, there will be no repeat. Unless, of course, you want it yourself.
You deserve the best, don't doubt it!
They know that without trust, respect, love and mutual assistance, a love union will never be happy and long-lasting.
These components are present in every strong family. Moreover, they should be there from the very beginning, when the young couple just start living under one roof. If a husband and wife quarrel, throw mud at each other, show indifference, then their marriage is doomed. It is impossible to create an idyll in such an environment.
Earlier we talked about phrases that undermine relationships .
Expert: Elena Gutyro
