All men at some point find themselves in deep thought. They want answers to the main questions:
- what attracts the fair sex to them?
- what criteria do women use when choosing their other half?
- what qualities in them are of particular value to ladies?
Want to know women's secrets? So, the beautiful half of humanity goes crazy over these male traits:
Simple, average external data
Yes, women really like handsome men. But ladies are afraid to tie their fate to such men. The fault lies with male beauty itself. Everyone knows that young men with a beautiful face and athletic body have plenty of admirers.
Handsome men are indifferent to the signs of attention from the opposite sex. The fact is that they can get any girl without making any effort. Accordingly, the meaning of the game is lost.
Another thing is an ordinary earthly man. He is interested in a woman, she is a real goddess for him. That is why a suitor who is not distinguished by unearthly beauty will not change partners and will not care about his chosen one.
Impeccable sense of humor and positivity
Ladies enjoy lively communication with humorous and mischievous men. At the same time, it is important that they joke with taste, and not tell hackneyed jokes, the meaning of which no one understands.
Sparkling jokes make women burst into laughter and smile widely. And if it is fun and interesting in a man's company, then life with him will be pleasant.
In difficult times, he will always cheer up and amuse, so that his beloved does not cry and despair. Yes, skilled jokers are worth their weight in gold now!
The desire to help selflessly, to sacrifice oneself to some extent
We are talking about reasonable altruism. The fairer sex pays attention to those men who are ready to do a good deed for the sake of a loved one. If a suitor volunteers to help a woman dig up a garden, he should not take payment for his work. This is the meaning of selfless care.
Altruistic men easily win women over. Ladies do not doubt their generosity.
Such a man will certainly provide a decent, calm life for his future children and wife. Undoubtedly, a smart woman will prefer an altruist to an egoist.
Strength of spirit and desire for success
This does not mean that a man must be a multimillionaire. His task is to occupy a certain social niche and gain a foothold in it. Any working profession will do, starting from an ordinary rank-and-file employee.
It is important for a woman to know that a man has a reliable and stable income. If he is able to buy diapers, a crib and clothes for the future child, then it is possible to start a family with this candidate. The worst thing is when a man rushes about, trying to find a high-paying job. Life with such a man will bring a lot of trouble and trouble to a woman. This person will "get into trouble" time and time again.
Age, experience and life knowledge
In rare cases, wives are older than their husbands. As a rule, everything works out differently: women choose mature, serious candidates as husbands. The optimal age difference is from 5 to 10 years.
The fairer sex treats older men not as peers, but as adults, accomplished people. That is why they accept marriage proposals from such gentlemen without hesitation.
Facial hair
This question divides women into two categories. The first ladies adore brutal males with thick moustaches and beards, while the second, on the contrary, shy away from men with thick facial hair.
Advice for men: don't be afraid to experiment, and you will find someone who will appreciate you.
The instinct of a true hunter
To strengthen this very instinct, the victim must remain inaccessible to the man.
Women like stubborn and courageous suitors who achieve their goals despite obstacles. They deliberately push them away in order to enjoy courtship and compliments.
Ladies know that persistent men do not give up their positions. The more refusals from a woman, the more reciprocal steps from a man.
However, there are ladies who themselves like to run after indifferent men. Life examples prove this. But this is not an option for a man interested in a relationship. It is stupid to ignore a woman you like, because you can lose her one day.
Kindness and love for our smaller brothers
A great reason to meet someone is to have a cute dog. Remember the movie "101 Dalmatians", where the main characters met in the park while walking their pets?
Why don't you follow suit? Get yourself a four-legged friend and go for a walk with him. Maybe one day you'll meet your destiny.
Do you like cats? It's not a problem. A woman will appreciate your care for your furry friend if she drops by for a cup of tea.
The fairer sex admires men who treat animals with care and reverence. They see responsibility and kindness in these actions. Such qualities are irreplaceable in life together.
Romanticism and inventiveness
Romantics have virtually no rivals. Few can compete with them. Romantic suitors always pleasantly surprise ladies and delight them with sweet speeches. Is it possible to refuse a real romantic?
Romantics quickly make girls fall in love with them. They have a very rich imagination and impeccable manners. Of course, all the rude and impudent men pale in comparison to them.
A courageous profession
Ladies are always interested in and admire men who work hard physically. Firefighters, pilots, builders, miners, rescuers are a priority.
These hard workers have proven by their example that strength is of great importance. With its help, one can bring great benefit to the world and to individual people.
Independence
Unfortunately, there are many "household invalids" among the representatives of the stronger sex. That is why women cannot pass by independent men. They are pleasantly surprised by gentlemen who iron their own clothes, cook breakfast and clean the house.
Show how independent you are, and the positive effect will follow immediately. You see, you don't need to be a real magician to charm a woman!
We previously talked about the signs of a failing marriage
Expert: Elena Gutyro
