Sometimes we make mistakes that can ruin our relationship and lead to divorce.
We'll tell you about the most common mistakes that ruin marriages and give you tips on how to avoid or fix them.
You have a strict division of household chores.
Have you split the household chores evenly? This probably sounds like the most logical and fair way to deal with annoying responsibilities.
However, as paradoxical as it may sound, this approach will ultimately force you to monitor the amount of things you and your partner do, whether he spends less time on household chores, and so on.
According to experts, it is much better to use the so-called instant division.
The point is that you share household chores right at the moment you go to do them.
Then you both will feel like you've done pretty much the same thing, devoting equal amounts of time to your responsibilities and avoiding arguments over one of you being the servant in the house.
You think that arguing is the end of the world.
It is normal for relationships to have ups and downs and different periods of acceptance. There is nothing wrong with arguing, exchanging opinions and building relationships.
Don't take an argument as a serious problem in your relationship, because it's definitely not the end of the world.
Try to argue constructively rather than destructively, and get used to the fact that arguments are part of all functional relationships.
Insist on an immediate resolution to a quarrel or dispute
Do you insist on resolving a fight immediately, even if it lasts all night? This is the worst idea you can come up with.
Forget the misconception that no one should go to bed upset.
On the contrary, it is much easier to resolve many disputes if you take a break and solve the problem with a cool head. Do not insist on quarrels at any cost.
You are trying to read minds
Get used to the idea that no one in the world can read minds and get into other people's heads. And neither can you.
You may feel like your partner is in a bad mood because of you, but in reality, he or she may just be sick.
If you want to know something, just ask and don't try to read your partner's mind. And don't expect anything like that from him.
Earlier we talked about how to get along with a stubborn husband .
Expert: Arkhipova Julia
