"Silence is golden" - many have heard this phrase. But has anyone thought about why it appeared?
Therefore, it is worth remembering several situations in which it is better to remain silent, even if you are overwhelmed with emotions.
During the conflict
When two sides clash, words can fuel the conflict. It is better to remain silent and let emotions subside before making informed decisions.
If there is insufficient information
In a world full of diversity of points of view and facts, it is better to remain silent than to say something without having a full picture of what is happening. Silence here can be a sign of respect for the opinions of others and one's own honesty.
In moments of grief and mourning
Words can be witty weapons that can cause deeper wounds in an already wounded heart. In such moments, it is better to listen to wisdom, which can be more comforting than any expression of condolence.
When discussing other people's personal affairs
Respect for the privacy of others requires not disclosing their personal matters without their consent. Interference or comments can cause irreparable damage to relationships and trust.
In times of uncontrollable rage
When anger is overwhelming, words can become weapons of mass destruction. At such moments, silence can prevent destructive consequences by giving time to understand and control emotions.
When discussing sensitive topics
Some topics require special tact and feeling that are not always easy to express in words. In such cases, silence can be a more expressive and at the same time more respectful way of communicating.
When thinking and making decisions
Wisdom is not only the ability to speak, but also the ability to listen to yourself. When you need to make an important decision, it is better to stop a little and think about what is happening.
When dealing with those who don't want to listen
Some discussions are fruitless and only deepen the differences of opinion. In such cases, silence may be the wisest response, without wasting energy on useless arguments.
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Expert: Elena Gutyro
