There is probably no person who would not like to have a full and happy love relationship. Whether we will have it depends on a number of factors.
One of the important factors is our behavior as a partner. This is an indicator of whether we really want a serious relationship at this stage, whether we have self-confidence that we are worthy of love, whether we are mature for a serious relationship.
Find out 5 more things that are important if you want to be happy in a relationship.
Don't be a clingy partner
Nobody likes a partner who wants to be around all the time, who constantly needs attention. Sitting all day waiting for a call or a message from your partner can lead to a break in the relationship. You start to get nervous, get worked up about something, feel undervalued.
Especially at the beginning of a love relationship, it is normal to want to see each other more often, communicate by phone or via messages with your loved one. But this should be a two-way process and do not forget that everyone has their own responsibilities, hobbies, time for themselves.
Learn to compromise
When it comes to creating and maintaining a stable love relationship, this is especially important. If you don’t learn to compromise, your relationship simply won’t stand a chance.
It is important to take the other person's opinion into account so that they feel valued, respected, and loved. The next time you have a disagreement, remind yourself that your goal is not primarily to win over your opponent, but to find a solution together.
Make small gestures
Sometimes words are not enough to express love and appreciation, so small acts of romance and affection can help you express your feelings.
You can surprise your partner with their favorite candies, movie tickets, and other little things. Keep it casual and the ideas will come.
Appreciate his interests, but don't apologize for yours.
Sometimes, when in a relationship, people give up their own interests and hobbies in order to spend more time with their loved one.
It's great if you want to share your partner's hobbies and activities, but you don't have to completely give up yours. Relationships should motivate us to become more interesting to each other, to develop, and not the other way around.
Don't idealize your partner
Many people idealize their partners, not seeing their flaws. No one is perfect, remember that. Despite this, it is important to accept your partner's flaws.
Instead of trying to change them, talk about what's bothering you, and if you can't solve the problems, learn to manage them in a way that doesn't interfere with you and your relationship.
It is important to respect your shortcomings, but on the other hand, any stable relationship requires you to respect yourself and value yourself.
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Expert: Elena Gutyro
